Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Need your guys help settingup the date..Its online thing..

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Canadien

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Ok guys, I just created my online profile one week ago, and I got one email message, tell me what is the best reply to this email...

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I read your profile and I really enjoyed what I read :)

My profile isn't that interesting to read, I never really know what I should write.

I did find alot of things in your profile very interesting.I appreciate your values and I think we could have some really great coversations.

Take a look at my very tiny profile and let me know what you think :)







now, should I just keep messaging, or should I just ask for the date? Which one would be more suitable? Her profile looks as if she's outgoing and active..What to say? I am not looking for one time thing, so what is the best course of action?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I'd message back and forth for a couple of weeks MAX, then suggest meeting somewhere.
 
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Francisco d'Anconia

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Monkey said:
I'd message back and forth for a couple of weeks MAX, then suggest meeting somewhere.
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A couple of weeks???? :confused: Way too long unless one is going out of town for a week.

I'd message back agreeing with her that her profile was a little light and suggest that she writes back stating what she liked about his profile in order to find some common interests (it's also a way to qualify her).

After receiving her reply, write a note back giving her a little insight about himself in regards to the items she enjoyed about him (of course if he's still interested). At the end tell her that he thinks that they would have a good time talking about these things and that she should meet him for something light like coffee after work. He should tell her a place and a couple of days and times he's available.

So within two or three emails he's started qualifying her and should have a date set up. It shouldn't take more than two or three days if she's truly interested.
 
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I would exchange something like 2 or 3 more emails and then ask her on a date (on the phone, tough)
 
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hello guys again

how does this message sound?

Hey there, how are you?

Looking at your profile, you have a way of telling a lot in a few words, and I would like to find out more about yourself, so tell me whats going in your life..


What else can I add?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Canadien said:
how does this message sound?

Hey there, how are you?

Looking at your profile, you have a way of telling a lot in a few words, and I would like to find out more about yourself, so tell me whats going in your life..


What else can I add?
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It helps when you comment on something specific in her profile. If you note can be sent to any woman, it's just another form letter.
 
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the message is a little too direct in baiting her in a generic way,I'd look at the chicks profile and take cues of interest while sneaking in something to spark it and bait her in indirectly...:whistle:

basicly open ended questions with her unqiue interests as a templet for material;


'never met a girl that was that into cars..but then you must get that often lol
any plans for more power or it or is it just a joyride?'

'it's pretty sweet!' :cool:
 
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