Ok so here it goes, , I'm 24 year old university student, I just joined this forum six month ago, at the time I was complete and utterly on the lowest level barrel, but since then lot has changed, I will list the changes I've made, you guys tell me if I'm on the right track or not!!
1) Before I could not make eye contact with anyone --> Now I can
2) Before I could not talk to anyone outside my class.
---> Now I talk to people in Bus, metro...
3) I would never make any kind of connection with any girl ---> Now I'm able to take one girl to coffee
4)Before I hated people, that hit on girls---> Now I admire them.
5) Before I could not talk about this subject---> Now this subject dominates my life.
6) Before I hated trying new things---> Now I look forward to trying new stuff
7) Before I wore clothes for myself ---> Now I dress to impress..
8) Before my hair style was my weakness--> now, after trying another style, it has become strong point.
9) Before I had no place to talk to girls--> Now that problem has been solved by joinning French and English conversation group.
10) Before I would never target girls---> Now, i'm always looking out for any girl out there.
The thing that I still can't do
1) I still can't go to clubs
2) I still can't ask girls number
3) I am too much career oriented.
4) I seem to be creating my own style --> I don't read books on intimacy, is that bad?
5) I still can't talk to white chics, somehow they seem more aware of the game and approach so I avoid them like plague.
Now, how bad are this flaws? is this just part of self growth? Should I just go with the flow?
I'm 6.0 in height, and I weight around 160 pound, So I think my physical attributes are my strong points, only back draw is that I'm from south Indian familly, so our expectations are different, and I'm learnning to go on the other side.
1) Before I could not make eye contact with anyone --> Now I can
2) Before I could not talk to anyone outside my class.
---> Now I talk to people in Bus, metro...
3) I would never make any kind of connection with any girl ---> Now I'm able to take one girl to coffee
4)Before I hated people, that hit on girls---> Now I admire them.
5) Before I could not talk about this subject---> Now this subject dominates my life.
6) Before I hated trying new things---> Now I look forward to trying new stuff
7) Before I wore clothes for myself ---> Now I dress to impress..
8) Before my hair style was my weakness--> now, after trying another style, it has become strong point.
9) Before I had no place to talk to girls--> Now that problem has been solved by joinning French and English conversation group.
10) Before I would never target girls---> Now, i'm always looking out for any girl out there.
The thing that I still can't do
1) I still can't go to clubs
2) I still can't ask girls number
3) I am too much career oriented.
4) I seem to be creating my own style --> I don't read books on intimacy, is that bad?
5) I still can't talk to white chics, somehow they seem more aware of the game and approach so I avoid them like plague.
Now, how bad are this flaws? is this just part of self growth? Should I just go with the flow?
I'm 6.0 in height, and I weight around 160 pound, So I think my physical attributes are my strong points, only back draw is that I'm from south Indian familly, so our expectations are different, and I'm learnning to go on the other side.