Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I've been going after this girl for some time. I asked her out a few months back, she said she had a bf, but ever since she says hi and asks how i am, which more than she has dun b4 i asked her out.

Last night, i saw her again, so i waved her over and she was not hesitant at all. I put one hand on her side, the other on her bicep, leaned in at whispered in her ear, "You look really nice tonight". I stepped back and she said, "you're always so nice". I heard the word "nice" in there and took that as a bad sign. Am i right? Theres more to the story and about us, but what did she mean by nice? I took it as "i like u, but only as a friend". Is that a right conception?

~JD~:confused:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What??!! Can u explain what u just wrote plz.

BTW, where are from in the T.C's?
 
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anybody can be nice. even your mom can be nice. basically the whole deal is, she can get anyone to say nice things about her. but have the guts to say things about her flaws? c'mon a real man will tell it how it is! girls dig that. but on occasion sometimes saying nice stuff helps you level to a humane level. but tease her about her everything. it's great!
 
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Women who tend to comment and say "you're a nice guy" doesn't necessarily mean THAT nice guy that we all hate.

If any of you saw the Howard Stern episode with Pamela Anderson on the lie detector and asked if she fvcked Kid Rock she was like "Yes...he's a nice guy".
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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She might have been reflecting your use of nice. Try something more extreme next time and see if she follows.
 
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