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[Buck Naked]

I've been going after this girl for some time. I asked her out a few months back, she said she had a bf, but ever since she says hi and asks how i am, which more than she has dun b4 i asked her out.

Last night, i saw her again, so i waved her over and she was not hesitant at all. I put one hand on her side, the other on her bicep, leaned in at whispered in her ear, "You look really nice tonight". I stepped back and she said, "you're always so nice". I heard the word "nice" in there and took that as a bad sign. Am i right? Theres more to the story and about us, but what did she mean by nice? I took it as "i like u, but only as a friend". Is that a right conception?

~JD~

 

[stalluproar]

You give compliments, she feels repelled
You notice flaws, she feels attraction.

 

[Buck Naked]

What??!! Can u explain what u just wrote plz.

BTW, where are from in the T.C's?

 

[t00dumb]

anybody can be nice. even your mom can be nice. basically the whole deal is, she can get anyone to say nice things about her. but have the guts to say things about her flaws? c'mon a real man will tell it how it is! girls dig that. but on occasion sometimes saying nice stuff helps you level to a humane level. but tease her about her everything. it's great!

 

[unistork]

Women who tend to comment and say "you're a nice guy" doesn't necessarily mean THAT nice guy that we all hate.

If any of you saw the Howard Stern episode with Pamela Anderson on the lie detector and asked if she fvcked Kid Rock she was like "Yes...he's a nice guy".

 

[Donald Kaufman]

She might have been reflecting your use of nice. Try something more extreme next time and see if she follows.