"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Need to stop fapping!!!

Bizzle13

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Short but sweet: beforehand (or during) I feel confident that I could get with anyone, can be the centre of attention in a huge setting etc basically I feel like the man. Then after I just feel dirty and shi*ty. I know the psychology of it and how it works but yet at least once a day I find myself doing it. I think I need to spend my time doing productive things rather than 'chilling' because that usually leads to one thing :/

Don't really know what I'm looking for here but had to get it off my chest.

Bizzle
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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altec

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Better than getting it "on" your chest....

I had a few false starts when I tried to quit. I think you should try to quit the porn first.. Then, just visualize about girls/etc without the porn if you can't go cold turkey completely. I got to a point there I just realized I hd to stop and put that energy in meeting real girls vs Porn/etc. I lost track of how long it has been. I have had situations in the past where I went a month and then started again but now I feel no desire to start up again.
 

Cremasta

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Why would you feel dirty? It's yours, you can do what you like with it!

There are times when rubbing one out is a good idea. Let's say you've just broken up with your gf, you're lonely, and you're starting to get the idea that you should probably call up "the best thing that ever happened to me and maybe we should give it another shot."
Just go and sort yourself out and then you'll remember that she was "that cold b!tch who made my life hell!"

All things in moderation, but if you find yourself ducking off to the toilets every hour or so at work, then you've probably got a problem...
 
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