"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Need to quit cursing, cussing, and swearing.

WaRpEd

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Ok bros, help me out here.

I would very much so like to quit cursing. I feel it degrades my personality and its leaking into places it shouldn't be leaking into. :down: I it's a big hindrance in many parts of my life, and I would very much so at least like to cut back. Also I feel that when (never say IF) I do this it will help me work on many other aspects (such as thinking before I talk, overall classiness, and what have you)

So I need some ideas here. I'll try putting a selected amount money in a jar, but I know I'll break down and use it for gas or laundry like it would have been used for anyways. My mom's not here to back-hand me and my roommates would curse me out if I asked (in a funny way, lol).

Any Ideas? Suggestions? Comments? Constructive criticism? Any one want to to quit bad-mothin' with me?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The Bad Ass Canadian

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Just be conscious of it and you'll cut back. I've been trying to do the same thing, as I have the mouth of a sailor when I'm having a bad day. Now I only curse in front of my closer friends an try and avoid swearing or showing anything but upbeat positive emotions when I'm around the general public. At least in this way I can still get my cursing and swearing out of the way, amongst people who don't care. I try not to swear much in front of my girl, either.

A damn or a sh!t ain't bad, but when you start droppin f-bombs and other profanities in every phrase, it sounds very low class
 

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Every time you swear, $5 goes into a jar. That money goes to a charity or church. Whatever you choose. It's a win win situation.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Cursing isn't a bad thing... it just depends on the audience and the context. If you're telling a story to some people it can make things a lot more interesting because of the shock value and the political incorrectness. But if you're going up to approach women... don't cuss... even though they probably curse like sailors.
 

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It is the perfect word isn't it.

I'm dealing with this issue too. I swear a lot, but am trying to cut back haha.

Funny, I've gotten to a point where I'm happy with my pickup skills, happy with my body, happy with my education, etc. But I still have trouble being polite.

Put a jar in your room and every time you swear pop a quarter in there. It's not so much to take your money away, just to give true weight to your words.
 

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What the **** is wrong with you?
 

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Tell your friends that if you cuss it's okay for them to kick you.

I am not joking. In a cople of weeks you'll be fine or in the hospital.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I've always tried to be consious about it, but simply thinking to myself about it isn't going to work, everybody has a different learning process (especially me)

But anyways I've put a rubber band around my wrist (my V-Chip as I call it) and everytime I drop one I pop the...you know (lol)...out of myself. I've noticed a distinct decrease in how many times I've slipped up. Because I'm thinking about it, physically doing something about it, and a small sting everytime simply reminds me what I'm trying to do...though I think I need a stronger rubber band.
 
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