Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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need to learn how to dance

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school dance coming up, i havn't been to one before, cause i was such a nerd...owell, need some tips, i seriously dont know how to dance, can someone show me a site or link or tutorial or something?

much appreciated my brothers in arms
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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superman2k6

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there's been a million of these threads on multiple PUA sites and noone ever has the answer

if you're looking to learn how to dance on the net then, as far as i'm aware, you won't find it

don't be afraid to get your friend to teach you some basic steps. the most important tip is not to give a **** what ppl think about you while dancing. just act like you know wat you're doing and people will believe it, trust me (as long as you don't look ridiculous). you will look alot worse if you're all nervous, looking around trying to fit in
 

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Originally posted by MightyMate
I neber dance in my life, and ****ed about 60 woman.
Right...and this is coming from a guy with 400 post in two months...:down:
 

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Well, I was thinking about the same thing, exactly a year ago. Now, I have gone off to university and started clubbing pretty much every night and learnt how to carry myself reasonably well.

It is all about movement.

I can not explain how to dance, I have yet to find someone on the internet that can teach you how to dance. However, the most important thing is confidence. If you look like you are happy and know what you are doing, then everyone will accept that you do. If you do a really really stupid dance move, they will think that you are taking the piss.

Just go for it.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Boner da Stoner

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Find a girl who LJBF'd you, ask her to teach you how to dance...

She shouldn't feel like she has to impress you and will let loose. She shouldn't feel like you are hitting on her, she is there as your mentor, not your dance partner.
 

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Originally posted by Boner da Stoner
Find a girl who LJBF'd you, ask her to teach you how to dance...

She shouldn't feel like she has to impress you and will let loose. She shouldn't feel like you are hitting on her, she is there as your mentor, not your dance partner.
Wow, it has been a while since such an original advice has been posted here :D

Keep it up!
 

Crux

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Originally posted by oakraiderz2
Right...and this is coming from a guy with 400 post in two months...:down:
Oh yes, because your post count on this forum is directly linked to the amount of women you've ****ed. Great logic there. :down:
 

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You can read all you want on how to dance, and I suggest it, but you won't get positive results unless you practice. Ask a female friend who won't have a problem to teach you.

Ask her to teach you to grind. Knowing you're inability to dance you'll be over your head. ;)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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