“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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school dance coming up, i havn't been to one before, cause i was such a nerd...owell, need some tips, i seriously dont know how to dance, can someone show me a site or link or tutorial or something?

much appreciated my brothers in arms
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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superman2k6

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there's been a million of these threads on multiple PUA sites and noone ever has the answer

if you're looking to learn how to dance on the net then, as far as i'm aware, you won't find it

don't be afraid to get your friend to teach you some basic steps. the most important tip is not to give a **** what ppl think about you while dancing. just act like you know wat you're doing and people will believe it, trust me (as long as you don't look ridiculous). you will look alot worse if you're all nervous, looking around trying to fit in
 

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Originally posted by MightyMate
I neber dance in my life, and ****ed about 60 woman.
Right...and this is coming from a guy with 400 post in two months...:down:
 

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Well, I was thinking about the same thing, exactly a year ago. Now, I have gone off to university and started clubbing pretty much every night and learnt how to carry myself reasonably well.

It is all about movement.

I can not explain how to dance, I have yet to find someone on the internet that can teach you how to dance. However, the most important thing is confidence. If you look like you are happy and know what you are doing, then everyone will accept that you do. If you do a really really stupid dance move, they will think that you are taking the piss.

Just go for it.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Find a girl who LJBF'd you, ask her to teach you how to dance...

She shouldn't feel like she has to impress you and will let loose. She shouldn't feel like you are hitting on her, she is there as your mentor, not your dance partner.
 

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Originally posted by Boner da Stoner
Find a girl who LJBF'd you, ask her to teach you how to dance...

She shouldn't feel like she has to impress you and will let loose. She shouldn't feel like you are hitting on her, she is there as your mentor, not your dance partner.
Wow, it has been a while since such an original advice has been posted here :D

Keep it up!
 

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Originally posted by oakraiderz2
Right...and this is coming from a guy with 400 post in two months...:down:
Oh yes, because your post count on this forum is directly linked to the amount of women you've ****ed. Great logic there. :down:
 

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You can read all you want on how to dance, and I suggest it, but you won't get positive results unless you practice. Ask a female friend who won't have a problem to teach you.

Ask her to teach you to grind. Knowing you're inability to dance you'll be over your head. ;)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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