"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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need to learn how to dance

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theory of knowledge

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school dance coming up, i havn't been to one before, cause i was such a nerd...owell, need some tips, i seriously dont know how to dance, can someone show me a site or link or tutorial or something?

much appreciated my brothers in arms
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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superman2k6

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there's been a million of these threads on multiple PUA sites and noone ever has the answer

if you're looking to learn how to dance on the net then, as far as i'm aware, you won't find it

don't be afraid to get your friend to teach you some basic steps. the most important tip is not to give a **** what ppl think about you while dancing. just act like you know wat you're doing and people will believe it, trust me (as long as you don't look ridiculous). you will look alot worse if you're all nervous, looking around trying to fit in
 
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Originally posted by MightyMate
I neber dance in my life, and ****ed about 60 woman.
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Right...and this is coming from a guy with 400 post in two months...:down:
 
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Well, I was thinking about the same thing, exactly a year ago. Now, I have gone off to university and started clubbing pretty much every night and learnt how to carry myself reasonably well.

It is all about movement.

I can not explain how to dance, I have yet to find someone on the internet that can teach you how to dance. However, the most important thing is confidence. If you look like you are happy and know what you are doing, then everyone will accept that you do. If you do a really really stupid dance move, they will think that you are taking the piss.

Just go for it.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Find a girl who LJBF'd you, ask her to teach you how to dance...

She shouldn't feel like she has to impress you and will let loose. She shouldn't feel like you are hitting on her, she is there as your mentor, not your dance partner.
 
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Originally posted by Boner da Stoner
Find a girl who LJBF'd you, ask her to teach you how to dance...

She shouldn't feel like she has to impress you and will let loose. She shouldn't feel like you are hitting on her, she is there as your mentor, not your dance partner.
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Wow, it has been a while since such an original advice has been posted here :D

Keep it up!
 
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Originally posted by oakraiderz2
Right...and this is coming from a guy with 400 post in two months...:down:
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Oh yes, because your post count on this forum is directly linked to the amount of women you've ****ed. Great logic there. :down:
 
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You can read all you want on how to dance, and I suggest it, but you won't get positive results unless you practice. Ask a female friend who won't have a problem to teach you.

Ask her to teach you to grind. Knowing you're inability to dance you'll be over your head. ;)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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