Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Need to drastically improve flexibility

Zeal

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Doing these heavy compound exercises, like deep squats and deadlifts, has made it clear to me that my flexibility is total sh**. I'm ectomorphic and 6'3", and there's no way I can bend over and touch my toes, for example. I realize this can be dangerous, as I'm dealing with these heavy weights with tight quads and such, and not rounding my back doing these exercises is practically impossible. A recipe for injury, to be sure. Anybody have any tips/routines I can use to deal with this? I'm looking for drastic improvement.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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future_strongguy

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Yep, here you go:

Before every workout, 5 minutes running on the treadmill, then do these:
http://stronglifts.com/7-dynamic-stretches-to-improve-your-hip-mobility/
Then do these:
http://stronglifts.com/how-to-improve-your-ankle-mobility/
1-2 sets of 10.

Then squat. Make sure to do warm ups sets of 3, 2, and 1, unless using weight less than 80 lbs, increasing weight by 30-40 lbs each set.

On off days, do the same, but add a few static stretches after the 9 dynamic ones. My favorite hamstring stretch:

stand, feet together, unlocked but straight knees. Push hips back, keeping chest up. Chest up is the most important thing. rounding the lower back will move the stretch from your hamstrings to your lower back. Try reach the point where your torso is parallel with the ground.

also, do the squat stretch. look for it in this article (somewhere in the middle): http://stronglifts.com/how-to-squat-with-proper-technique-fix-common-problems/#stretch

Tips for static stretches. Do as many sets are you want, but never longer than 30 seconds.

Doing the dynamic stretches not only let me go deeper on squats, but gave me more strength. The soreness on my lower back was gone, and I felt I could do my 5RM as a 10RM.
 

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future_strongguy said:
Yep, here you go:

Before every workout, 5 minutes running on the treadmill, then do these:
http://stronglifts.com/7-dynamic-stretches-to-improve-your-hip-mobility/
Then do these:
http://stronglifts.com/how-to-improve-your-ankle-mobility/
1-2 sets of 10.

Then squat. Make sure to do warm ups sets of 3, 2, and 1, unless using weight less than 80 lbs, increasing weight by 30-40 lbs each set.

On off days, do the same, but add a few static stretches after the 9 dynamic ones. My favorite hamstring stretch:

stand, feet together, unlocked but straight knees. Push hips back, keeping chest up. Chest up is the most important thing. rounding the lower back will move the stretch from your hamstrings to your lower back. Try reach the point where your torso is parallel with the ground.

also, do the squat stretch. look for it in this article (somewhere in the middle): http://stronglifts.com/how-to-squat-with-proper-technique-fix-common-problems/#stretch

Tips for static stretches. Do as many sets are you want, but never longer than 30 seconds.

Doing the dynamic stretches not only let me go deeper on squats, but gave me more strength. The soreness on my lower back was gone, and I felt I could do my 5RM as a 10RM.
^^^^^^^^^^ :up:
 

Zeal

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Thanks a lot. This is exactly the type of info I was looking for. There are some more good articles on that stronglifts site as well.
 

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static stretches before you lift make me nervous, but i realize there's a huge difference between stretching your targets, synergists, and stabilizers, agonists versus antagonists, etc. etc., i just can't remember which you need to avoid stretching statically before lifting and which are fine to stretch before. time for one of you smart alecks with a degree in this crap to make yourself useful.

my rule of thumb is to leave static stretches for after lifting but i know that's overly limiting, i just can't recall why......
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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