"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Need to drastically improve flexibility

Zeal

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Doing these heavy compound exercises, like deep squats and deadlifts, has made it clear to me that my flexibility is total sh**. I'm ectomorphic and 6'3", and there's no way I can bend over and touch my toes, for example. I realize this can be dangerous, as I'm dealing with these heavy weights with tight quads and such, and not rounding my back doing these exercises is practically impossible. A recipe for injury, to be sure. Anybody have any tips/routines I can use to deal with this? I'm looking for drastic improvement.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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future_strongguy

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Yep, here you go:

Before every workout, 5 minutes running on the treadmill, then do these:
http://stronglifts.com/7-dynamic-stretches-to-improve-your-hip-mobility/
Then do these:
http://stronglifts.com/how-to-improve-your-ankle-mobility/
1-2 sets of 10.

Then squat. Make sure to do warm ups sets of 3, 2, and 1, unless using weight less than 80 lbs, increasing weight by 30-40 lbs each set.

On off days, do the same, but add a few static stretches after the 9 dynamic ones. My favorite hamstring stretch:

stand, feet together, unlocked but straight knees. Push hips back, keeping chest up. Chest up is the most important thing. rounding the lower back will move the stretch from your hamstrings to your lower back. Try reach the point where your torso is parallel with the ground.

also, do the squat stretch. look for it in this article (somewhere in the middle): http://stronglifts.com/how-to-squat-with-proper-technique-fix-common-problems/#stretch

Tips for static stretches. Do as many sets are you want, but never longer than 30 seconds.

Doing the dynamic stretches not only let me go deeper on squats, but gave me more strength. The soreness on my lower back was gone, and I felt I could do my 5RM as a 10RM.
 

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future_strongguy said:
Yep, here you go:

Before every workout, 5 minutes running on the treadmill, then do these:
http://stronglifts.com/7-dynamic-stretches-to-improve-your-hip-mobility/
Then do these:
http://stronglifts.com/how-to-improve-your-ankle-mobility/
1-2 sets of 10.

Then squat. Make sure to do warm ups sets of 3, 2, and 1, unless using weight less than 80 lbs, increasing weight by 30-40 lbs each set.

On off days, do the same, but add a few static stretches after the 9 dynamic ones. My favorite hamstring stretch:

stand, feet together, unlocked but straight knees. Push hips back, keeping chest up. Chest up is the most important thing. rounding the lower back will move the stretch from your hamstrings to your lower back. Try reach the point where your torso is parallel with the ground.

also, do the squat stretch. look for it in this article (somewhere in the middle): http://stronglifts.com/how-to-squat-with-proper-technique-fix-common-problems/#stretch

Tips for static stretches. Do as many sets are you want, but never longer than 30 seconds.

Doing the dynamic stretches not only let me go deeper on squats, but gave me more strength. The soreness on my lower back was gone, and I felt I could do my 5RM as a 10RM.
^^^^^^^^^^ :up:
 

Zeal

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Thanks a lot. This is exactly the type of info I was looking for. There are some more good articles on that stronglifts site as well.
 

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static stretches before you lift make me nervous, but i realize there's a huge difference between stretching your targets, synergists, and stabilizers, agonists versus antagonists, etc. etc., i just can't remember which you need to avoid stretching statically before lifting and which are fine to stretch before. time for one of you smart alecks with a degree in this crap to make yourself useful.

my rule of thumb is to leave static stretches for after lifting but i know that's overly limiting, i just can't recall why......
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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