"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Need to call for a date.. Im out of the loop

SpazzAttackk

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Alright so I met a girl at a party, we made out and nothing more. I added her on facebook, and told her I wanted to get to know her better over a coffee and a skating session downtown in good ol New York city. I was complimented with my ability to properly ask girls out and my straightforwardness. Now I have to call her. Its been about 4 days since I got the number.. I was going to do it yesterday but it was all you can eat wings night at my local restaurant and I left my phone at home. It was 11 by the time I got back, being way too late to call.

What the **** do I do? Ive been single for so long I completely forgot how to approach this matter. I dont know what to say over the phone, in fact im actually SCARED to call her. Theres something about phones that put me off.

Did I mention? I dont know how to skate?? I figured I could use this to my advantage though and have her teach me how, and make her laugh when she looks back at the date.

Im not tripping balls over this situation though, I just wanna know how to act over the phone. Im gonna need that skill in future dates with other women
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Bukkake

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Just call her right after you read this. Don't think about what you are going to say, just make the call. You need to have a mindset of knowing this girl for years and you have called her a thousand times before.

The more you put it off, the harder it will be to call her. You will blow it with her if you don't call, so what do you have to lose?

Now phucking call her!
 

VladPatton

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If you feel uneasy about the call and you are worried about things that badly, text it in. Make it quick and concise and tell her the time and day you plan on going ice skating. Keep it very short. No reply = you try again in a few days. No replies after that = she's not interested, that means you Next her. You know the deal.

Good luck.

PS: After the first date, your fear of calling should be no longer. No more texting after that, it's not needed.
 

SpazzAttackk

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I just called, about 20 mins ago. Went to voicemail. I thought id facebook message her because the holidays were coming to an end. She told me shes working this weekend and that she will let me know when shes free

Every time a woman has said those words to me she never gets back, and obviously Im not gonna message her again. Thats just too needy looking.

I dont get it, she was so ****ing excited and then she just flakes. Whatever, women are strange creatures
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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