"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Need to be sexual

Dude_man123

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I figured out where I screwed up with my girl-

When I first met her I used to be really sexual, and flirt with her sexual. I made sex jokes about us, and I wasn't afraid to feel on her. I knew she liked me. However, when attraction grew between us things changed... I stopped. Not sure why. Recently she stopped talking to me, no reason, she just stopped. Heck, might not even be because of that, idk. I found myself wondering if she comfortable with me touching her, and sometimes I wouldn't move in to kiss her even if I knew she wanted to. Things like that.

Anyway, I realized I need to be sexual again, not just for her, but for all the other women. It's just been a while since I have been. I am trying to remember some of the stuff I used to do, but I just can't get into that mindset again! Need some tips guys... and when I do, and manage to pick up another chick, how can stay like this?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Monkey

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You were given the reasons why you screwed up with this girl in the other thread, or are you just posting on this board with no intention of actually taking advice until its what you want to hear?
 

Dude_man123

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I know that. And I have identified this as the main reason- this what has attracted other girls to me. I lost this... somehow. Anyway, the more I think about it the more it makes sense.

And I am taking the advice you guys gave me. I deleted her number from my phone. In fact- I have taken steps to stay away from her altogether. It hasn't worked out, because somehow... she ran into me... idk. Weird.
 
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