"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Need to be sexual

Dude_man123

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I figured out where I screwed up with my girl-

When I first met her I used to be really sexual, and flirt with her sexual. I made sex jokes about us, and I wasn't afraid to feel on her. I knew she liked me. However, when attraction grew between us things changed... I stopped. Not sure why. Recently she stopped talking to me, no reason, she just stopped. Heck, might not even be because of that, idk. I found myself wondering if she comfortable with me touching her, and sometimes I wouldn't move in to kiss her even if I knew she wanted to. Things like that.

Anyway, I realized I need to be sexual again, not just for her, but for all the other women. It's just been a while since I have been. I am trying to remember some of the stuff I used to do, but I just can't get into that mindset again! Need some tips guys... and when I do, and manage to pick up another chick, how can stay like this?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You were given the reasons why you screwed up with this girl in the other thread, or are you just posting on this board with no intention of actually taking advice until its what you want to hear?
 

Dude_man123

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I know that. And I have identified this as the main reason- this what has attracted other girls to me. I lost this... somehow. Anyway, the more I think about it the more it makes sense.

And I am taking the advice you guys gave me. I deleted her number from my phone. In fact- I have taken steps to stay away from her altogether. It hasn't worked out, because somehow... she ran into me... idk. Weird.
 
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