"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Need to be sexual

Dude_man123

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I figured out where I screwed up with my girl-

When I first met her I used to be really sexual, and flirt with her sexual. I made sex jokes about us, and I wasn't afraid to feel on her. I knew she liked me. However, when attraction grew between us things changed... I stopped. Not sure why. Recently she stopped talking to me, no reason, she just stopped. Heck, might not even be because of that, idk. I found myself wondering if she comfortable with me touching her, and sometimes I wouldn't move in to kiss her even if I knew she wanted to. Things like that.

Anyway, I realized I need to be sexual again, not just for her, but for all the other women. It's just been a while since I have been. I am trying to remember some of the stuff I used to do, but I just can't get into that mindset again! Need some tips guys... and when I do, and manage to pick up another chick, how can stay like this?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You were given the reasons why you screwed up with this girl in the other thread, or are you just posting on this board with no intention of actually taking advice until its what you want to hear?
 

Dude_man123

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I know that. And I have identified this as the main reason- this what has attracted other girls to me. I lost this... somehow. Anyway, the more I think about it the more it makes sense.

And I am taking the advice you guys gave me. I deleted her number from my phone. In fact- I have taken steps to stay away from her altogether. It hasn't worked out, because somehow... she ran into me... idk. Weird.
 
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