"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Need tips on clubbing/bars alone

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There is this club I go to almost every week, but lately my friends are either broke or they don't like rock music. I am aquaintences with some of the people that go there, but they aren't always there and I don't know them well enough to just show up alone and start hanging out with them for the night.

I don't mind going alone sometimes, infact its actually better because I don't have someone slowing me down.

But I need some tips on what to do when you are there alone so I don't become that weirdo in the shadows. I don't want anyone (girls in particular) to think I'm a loser because I am there alone.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I go to clubs alone quite often. I know a ton of people when I get up in them so it's not big deal to me if I have a road dog or not.

When your a person who can get women other men will flock to you to learn how you do what you do.


I much prefer being alone because like you said nobody to slow you down...
 
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Gigalo- thats a good idea about just becoming better friends with these people and is something I should do.

player supreme - i don't know most of these people well enough to just walk up and hang out with their group of people for the night unannounced, if I did I woudln't have this problem.

Also, I'm not a guy who can get women all to successfully. Im very much still a DJ in training and being alone at a club and being a DJ in training doesn't seem like an easy situation to me.

Are other ideas on things I can do when I am there? Making more friends there is good, but I need a plan for when Im alone so I dont look like a chump, outsider, or just a nutcase.
 
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I never go clubbing alone, because if I get bored I can just chill with my boys and just kick it.

BUT.....

When I go, I act like it's my club and I'm the owner. Same way at parties, you act like you're the host. Go around asking girls it they are having a good time: if yes--say you wanna join in////if no--say you wanna show her one.

Overall, just be confident.
 
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