So me and my friend might be going to the club tommorow(But who knows, because this particular friend is unreliable sometimes) and I need some tips on club game. What's the best way to go up to a girl and dance? Do you guys generally ask the girls or just go up there and start grinding? I'd like tips on that. Second of all, how do you handle AMOG's? I hear this a huge problem when gaming chicks in the club. Third of all, what's the best way to escalate to a makeout with a chick in the club? I'd like advice on all this stuff.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Need tips on club game.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
The Deacon
Senior Don Juan
Wear your best clothes.
Remember most girls in clubs don't want to grind. Anti-slut defense.
Don't stand to the sides. Social value will deteriorate quickly.
Don't laugh unless something's funny. People who laugh at every stupid@$$ thing come off approval-seeking.
When a girl gives you 3 IOIs, isolate her. Just say, "hey, let me show you something over there right quick." Once you get her into the corner, work on making her comfortable with you. Remember, if you think you can kiss her, just go for it. If she's near her friends she probably won't want to make out with you.
Keep strong body language around AMOGs. This takes practice, cause AMOGs do lots of sneaky things that make it really hard for you to take back the frame. For example, most stand right between you and the girl you're gaming, or they walk up and put their arms around her. You gotta be physical, but be careful. If the guy's bigger than you and you get the vibe that he resorts to violence, just let him game. I don't want you getting a black eye.
Remember most girls in clubs don't want to grind. Anti-slut defense.
Don't stand to the sides. Social value will deteriorate quickly.
Don't laugh unless something's funny. People who laugh at every stupid@$$ thing come off approval-seeking.
When a girl gives you 3 IOIs, isolate her. Just say, "hey, let me show you something over there right quick." Once you get her into the corner, work on making her comfortable with you. Remember, if you think you can kiss her, just go for it. If she's near her friends she probably won't want to make out with you.
Keep strong body language around AMOGs. This takes practice, cause AMOGs do lots of sneaky things that make it really hard for you to take back the frame. For example, most stand right between you and the girl you're gaming, or they walk up and put their arms around her. You gotta be physical, but be careful. If the guy's bigger than you and you get the vibe that he resorts to violence, just let him game. I don't want you getting a black eye.
Go to http://www.rsdnation.com/.. those guys are masters of club game..
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I haven't gotten a really good grasp of club game(Still experiencing it), but so far from what i recall...The Deacon's advice is pretty good. Robstar's link is good, RSD are very good with club game. Also, girls who have shields at clubs. Don't fret...its just natural. She's just holding back. Don't be affected what so ever. Just keep staying there till u clearly know she aint interested AT ALL to say the least. Keep plowing while talking...its better than nothing. I Think so far so good. 
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
Just go there do have fun . Dont expect anything to happen . Just to have fun .
Wear your best clothes as Deacon said , shower , fix your hairs , put a good cologne (when your looking good you feel confident).
What i dont agree with Deacon is that he said DONT SMILE .
Just ****ing smile . Tell that your having fun and your not desperate .
Dance , have fun . Girls want a guy who's having more fun than they do .
If you have pivot coming with you would be great .
Open sets with higher energy level , make fun of them , tease them , i think you know what to do here .
And oh. I almost forgot the key to the clubs . Learn some dance moves . Youll feel alone if you dont know how to dance .
Since its first time for you clubbing , go there just to watch the field . Dont take it with rush . Dont worry . Always go there firstly TO HAVE FUN . Secondly TO GET PVSSY .
Cheers
Wear your best clothes as Deacon said , shower , fix your hairs , put a good cologne (when your looking good you feel confident).
What i dont agree with Deacon is that he said DONT SMILE .
Just ****ing smile
. Tell that your having fun and your not desperate .Dance , have fun . Girls want a guy who's having more fun than they do .
If you have pivot coming with you would be great .
Open sets with higher energy level , make fun of them , tease them , i think you know what to do here .
And oh. I almost forgot the key to the clubs . Learn some dance moves . Youll feel alone if you dont know how to dance .
Since its first time for you clubbing , go there just to watch the field . Dont take it with rush . Dont worry . Always go there firstly TO HAVE FUN . Secondly TO GET PVSSY
.Cheers
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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