"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Need tips on club game.

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ElStud

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So me and my friend might be going to the club tommorow(But who knows, because this particular friend is unreliable sometimes) and I need some tips on club game. What's the best way to go up to a girl and dance? Do you guys generally ask the girls or just go up there and start grinding? I'd like tips on that. Second of all, how do you handle AMOG's? I hear this a huge problem when gaming chicks in the club. Third of all, what's the best way to escalate to a makeout with a chick in the club? I'd like advice on all this stuff.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The Deacon

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Wear your best clothes.

Remember most girls in clubs don't want to grind. Anti-slut defense.

Don't stand to the sides. Social value will deteriorate quickly.

Don't laugh unless something's funny. People who laugh at every stupid@$$ thing come off approval-seeking.

When a girl gives you 3 IOIs, isolate her. Just say, "hey, let me show you something over there right quick." Once you get her into the corner, work on making her comfortable with you. Remember, if you think you can kiss her, just go for it. If she's near her friends she probably won't want to make out with you.

Keep strong body language around AMOGs. This takes practice, cause AMOGs do lots of sneaky things that make it really hard for you to take back the frame. For example, most stand right between you and the girl you're gaming, or they walk up and put their arms around her. You gotta be physical, but be careful. If the guy's bigger than you and you get the vibe that he resorts to violence, just let him game. I don't want you getting a black eye.
 

DonJoseCantosie

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I haven't gotten a really good grasp of club game(Still experiencing it), but so far from what i recall...The Deacon's advice is pretty good. Robstar's link is good, RSD are very good with club game. Also, girls who have shields at clubs. Don't fret...its just natural. She's just holding back. Don't be affected what so ever. Just keep staying there till u clearly know she aint interested AT ALL to say the least. Keep plowing while talking...its better than nothing. I Think so far so good. :)
 

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Just go there do have fun . Dont expect anything to happen . Just to have fun .

Wear your best clothes as Deacon said , shower , fix your hairs , put a good cologne (when your looking good you feel confident).

What i dont agree with Deacon is that he said DONT SMILE .
Just ****ing smile :D . Tell that your having fun and your not desperate .
Dance , have fun . Girls want a guy who's having more fun than they do .
If you have pivot coming with you would be great .

Open sets with higher energy level , make fun of them , tease them , i think you know what to do here .

And oh. I almost forgot the key to the clubs . Learn some dance moves . Youll feel alone if you dont know how to dance .

Since its first time for you clubbing , go there just to watch the field . Dont take it with rush . Dont worry . Always go there firstly TO HAVE FUN . Secondly TO GET PVSSY :D .

Cheers
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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