I'll keep this short, but I was with a chick last night who is into rough sex... biting, pinching, hair pulling, a little pain. I admit I don't have a lot of experience with a chick like this so it was quite an experience. Never really met a chick who was into that so I was a little unsure about what to do. I'm all for playing rough a bit, but I don't want to leave bruises or actually hurt her. Any tips?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Need tips for rough sex
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
When she bites or scratches you, tell her she being a bad girl, bend her over and spank her. Give her a good stinging slap or two on her ass.
When you two are getting it going, wrestle a little bit and push her into position, "force" yourself onto her. Hold her hands down when she starts pinching and make her submit.
Pretend that you are a wild animals, and to make her submit she must be worn down and conquered.
This is all in good fun and not meant for a women who doesn't consent.
When you two are getting it going, wrestle a little bit and push her into position, "force" yourself onto her. Hold her hands down when she starts pinching and make her submit.
Pretend that you are a wild animals, and to make her submit she must be worn down and conquered.
This is all in good fun and not meant for a women who doesn't consent.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
flyinshark
Senior Don Juan
It's okay to talk in bed. Do what she wants you to do, and when you are not sure if you are being too rough, just ask her if that's too much for her. Find her limits and have fun, cuz not all girls are like that.
You'll get better with time, so then you will start improvising and it will only get better.
You'll get better with time, so then you will start improvising and it will only get better.
donjuanjovi
Senior Don Juan
Don't ask her if you're being too rough. It'll kill the mood! She will let you know if you're being too rough.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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rocky_mtn said:
I like you, my boy.
btw, some girls like bruises..
spider_007
Master Don Juan
first of all, make sure she is SANE
There is nothing like sitting in the police station acused of rape and abuse....
One of the things that makes them attracted to this is BEING POWERLESS, and witnessing HER MANS POWER. You have to trow the ***** around like she is your personal sex toy, and there is nothing she can do about it.
Second thing; she has to be in the mood (horny). feel her out. find out what turns her on, does she like it rought right off the bat, or does she like it to escalate to it (this is the case most of the time)
When your POUNDING her doggy stile hold her hands behind her back with one hand (use your imagination), and hold her head in place by her hair with another.
if your doing her missionary, position your body verticaly, take her legs and put them over one shoulder (keep them together), take her hands, into yours, cross them and sqeese her legs with your forarms. Then by straightening your body lift her hips into place, and pound her like there is no tomorow.
There is nothing like sitting in the police station acused of rape and abuse....
One of the things that makes them attracted to this is BEING POWERLESS, and witnessing HER MANS POWER. You have to trow the ***** around like she is your personal sex toy, and there is nothing she can do about it.
Second thing; she has to be in the mood (horny). feel her out. find out what turns her on, does she like it rought right off the bat, or does she like it to escalate to it (this is the case most of the time)
When your POUNDING her doggy stile hold her hands behind her back with one hand (use your imagination), and hold her head in place by her hair with another.
if your doing her missionary, position your body verticaly, take her legs and put them over one shoulder (keep them together), take her hands, into yours, cross them and sqeese her legs with your forarms. Then by straightening your body lift her hips into place, and pound her like there is no tomorow.