"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Need tips for "extreme" conditions... fast please.

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The point of this thread is to give tips to those people who live in special conditions and can't train that frequently.
Or having trouble getting enough nutrients because environment where they live:

Like living in school campus, having a busy life or like my case are in army...

In my situation now it's time I gotta train my squad more and more combat training.
That means more time away from gym that I've been able to hit when living at the base.



Anyone can spot my training problems: not getting enough food, rest, and training...


We eat there 3 times a day and a volunteer evening snack, but 3 meals + couple slices of bread is too little in a day.
I've been consuming much whey and maltodextrine along with glutamine and creatine and got some muscle addition.
It's hard enough but it's even harder when we are going to the wild.

I'm planning to take supplements along with protein bars and cans of tuna with me and mix some drinks in those plastic bags used for freezing since I can't wash a mixer up that well out there when we are camping somewhere in forest...

Also at the base I don't have a fridge to have extra food.
So my extra food is based on tuna and nutrients.


Does anyone have tips on what to eat there if you don't have a fridge since tuna is getting little boring?
And what to do when I have a combat camp week and can't train?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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As the weather gets colder and you have high outdoor activity levels, you will want to consume more fats. I might bring a jar of peanut butter or an alvocado. I once read of a Sherpa surviving for two weeks in the snow on one jar of mayonaise.
 

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Originally posted by Bible_Belt
As the weather gets colder and you have high outdoor activity levels, you will want to consume more fats. I might bring a jar of peanut butter or an alvocado. I once read of a Sherpa surviving for two weeks in the snow on one jar of mayonaise.
Haha that mayonaise story is tight!

Ahhh, peanut butter!!
How did I forgot that?
- Maybe because we don't consume peanut butter like you do in America, hehe

That's really true that when winter is at the door, body has to consume MUCH more energy to keep itself warm so I have to get more calories and peanut butter is a great idea.

More tips and ideas please.
 

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When I was in the army and we went out on manouevres, the staples in my kitbag were always mixed nuts, raisins, ginger biscuits, peanut butter as stated earlier, avocadoes (when I could get 'em), chocolate bars (no chance of getting fat, get the really dark high-cocoa chocolate and some Mars Bars for when you're out on patrol at 2am), milk powder, this is also circumstances where powder-based nutrition is very helpful, get some whey, MRPs, hell, even weight gainer..

All of the above keeps without a fridge.

We also had palouze, but I doubt you get it where you are.
 

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Originally posted by Warboss Alex
When I was in the army and we went out on manouevres, the staples in my kitbag were always mixed nuts, raisins, ginger biscuits, peanut butter as stated earlier, avocadoes (when I could get 'em), chocolate bars (no chance of getting fat, get the really dark high-cocoa chocolate and some Mars Bars for when you're out on patrol at 2am), milk powder, this is also circumstances where powder-based nutrition is very helpful, get some whey, MRPs, hell, even weight gainer..

All of the above keeps without a fridge.

We also had palouze, but I doubt you get it where you are.
That's all great to have yes!
Thanks.

Milk powder... hmmm.
I was searching it on bodybuilding.com and nutrient values look great. Damn I think it would be great addition to whey/carb/creatine mixture.

Any other tips, tricks or ideas to share?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I never bothered taking extra supps out bush, it just made the pack heavier! hehe

I increased muscle mass a lot during my first year in simply from the training and enormous quantities of food we were shovelling down, and then when we went bush you'd quickly lose any stored bodyfat... it was more or less like a constant bulking/cutting cycle - bulking when on base, and cutting when out bush!

Personally I had more important things to worry about then eating right, like when I could next get some gonk or at least get a brew on.
 

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I wouldn't consume creatine its demanding when u dont have water.
 

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Originally posted by Hendrix
I wouldn't consume creatine its demanding when u dont have water.
I can have water as much as I want for drinking. That's not a problem.

Washing dishes is more problematic, it's possible yes, but when you are 10 days out there and you don't get your mixer that good washed up there's a risk of getting some nasty bacteria and gettin sick.
Have you ever left your mixer there for a day not washed properly?
- Ewww
 
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