"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

Need the power back!!

D

doback

Don Juan
Joined
May 9, 2009
Messages
17
Reaction score
0
Location
Canada
Okay, So I made the mistake of telling this girl that I liked her, and I fear I have lost the power, how do I get the power back? and get her re-interested if she has lost some intrest?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

4

46and2aheadofme

Don Juan
Joined
Dec 15, 2008
Messages
122
Reaction score
4
You're f*cked.

If she didn't blush/ smile wildly/ tell you the same thing you need to move on.

If a girl that you were attracted to you told you the same thing how would you react? You'd be happy and express your feelings as well.

This is beyond who has power....the best thing you can do now is keep mild contact with her while moving on to another girl.

Good luck.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top