"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Need the power back!!

doback

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Okay, So I made the mistake of telling this girl that I liked her, and I fear I have lost the power, how do I get the power back? and get her re-interested if she has lost some intrest?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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46and2aheadofme

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You're f*cked.

If she didn't blush/ smile wildly/ tell you the same thing you need to move on.

If a girl that you were attracted to you told you the same thing how would you react? You'd be happy and express your feelings as well.

This is beyond who has power....the best thing you can do now is keep mild contact with her while moving on to another girl.

Good luck.
 
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