"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The Master Disaster

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On Myspace she posts a bulletin saying "I'm bored talk to me" so I do my thing and then about an hour passes and than she sends me a comment out of the blue saying:

Her: "The Master Disaster is stupid =)"
My Reply: "Big Woop. Wanna Fight about it?"
Her: "yep. tomorrow 3rd period. mr.fagget's room.

be there *****"
My Reply:"On his incredibly hard final on Word Processing? I think i'm gonna be up to 2 am studying for his damn final. I said hi to him in the hall today and that ***** didn't say hi back. He just looked at me and went back to walking 50 mph. I think I died a little inside."
Her: "its okay sweetheart, you'll find someone to fill that empty place in your heart that is reserved for mr.grantham.

yeah i've been studying like a mad man for this. im so nervous!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!"

Any thoughts on that statement

Funny Fact: Past couple days (May be wishful thinking but) she is friends with my friend and she pulls him aside and doesn't try talking to me about some "guy" she likes. Then on Monday he asks her if she talked to him on Myspace (I didn't log on) she says no he didn't log on... btw i was right between the two than she gives him kind of a face to give up and she says i'll talk to you later about it... (Idk but if the shoot fits were it). Also I logged in on monday she talked to me on her own, Today she talked to me on her own.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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TheManlyMan

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ask your friend to ask her if she likes you when you aren't there. Its always nice to have an informant. Oh I didn't log into myspace the other day either, maybe she likes me!

and that statement means this:

shes studying really hard and shes still nervous about the final.
 

The Master Disaster

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Originally posted by TheManlyMan
ask your friend to ask her if she likes you when you aren't there. Its always nice to have an informant. Oh I didn't log into myspace the other day either, maybe she likes me!

and that statement means this:

shes studying really hard and shes still nervous about the final.
its a joke class.

i don't know what you mean by overthinking it.
 

LikRetsam

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I've read a statement from the MANLY MAN! I'm inspired.

Anyways OP, seems like she's interest. Get a date.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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splinterkb

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My god. You are an idiot. Why would you post this ****?
 

i am me

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You're thinking too much like you shouldn't worry about little things like that, just do what you can to get with her. Don't think everything has some secret meaning, you don't always act like you're trying to send a message, why should she?
 
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