"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The Master Disaster

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On Myspace she posts a bulletin saying "I'm bored talk to me" so I do my thing and then about an hour passes and than she sends me a comment out of the blue saying:

Her: "The Master Disaster is stupid =)"
My Reply: "Big Woop. Wanna Fight about it?"
Her: "yep. tomorrow 3rd period. mr.fagget's room.

be there *****"
My Reply:"On his incredibly hard final on Word Processing? I think i'm gonna be up to 2 am studying for his damn final. I said hi to him in the hall today and that ***** didn't say hi back. He just looked at me and went back to walking 50 mph. I think I died a little inside."
Her: "its okay sweetheart, you'll find someone to fill that empty place in your heart that is reserved for mr.grantham.

yeah i've been studying like a mad man for this. im so nervous!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!"

Any thoughts on that statement

Funny Fact: Past couple days (May be wishful thinking but) she is friends with my friend and she pulls him aside and doesn't try talking to me about some "guy" she likes. Then on Monday he asks her if she talked to him on Myspace (I didn't log on) she says no he didn't log on... btw i was right between the two than she gives him kind of a face to give up and she says i'll talk to you later about it... (Idk but if the shoot fits were it). Also I logged in on monday she talked to me on her own, Today she talked to me on her own.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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TheManlyMan

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ask your friend to ask her if she likes you when you aren't there. Its always nice to have an informant. Oh I didn't log into myspace the other day either, maybe she likes me!

and that statement means this:

shes studying really hard and shes still nervous about the final.
 

The Master Disaster

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Originally posted by TheManlyMan
ask your friend to ask her if she likes you when you aren't there. Its always nice to have an informant. Oh I didn't log into myspace the other day either, maybe she likes me!

and that statement means this:

shes studying really hard and shes still nervous about the final.
its a joke class.

i don't know what you mean by overthinking it.
 

LikRetsam

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I've read a statement from the MANLY MAN! I'm inspired.

Anyways OP, seems like she's interest. Get a date.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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splinterkb

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My god. You are an idiot. Why would you post this ****?
 

i am me

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You're thinking too much like you shouldn't worry about little things like that, just do what you can to get with her. Don't think everything has some secret meaning, you don't always act like you're trying to send a message, why should she?
 
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