"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Palagi9

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Hi, I'm new to all this, so kind of need some help/advice.

So, I went to a Strip Club last night and went to the VIP with a Stripper, we concluded our business, and I went back to the main floor. Later on that night she comes back to me and says hi, has a bit of a chat, and asks me for my number (i didn't ask, nor was I trying to get it). I give it to her, and she immediately texts me so I have her number.

Then, later the same night, after the club is closed, she sends me a Text Message saying it was nice to meet me, to which I reply roughly with a thanks and a likewise... then she responds asking me if I want to meet up today or tomorrow.

The question is, should I respond or not? I know on a base level, this is a lot of guys' dreams, but I know the risks and stigma that can surround these situations outside the strip club (they could be crazy), and I know sometimes this is a way for them to expand their customer base, so I wanna know if you guys think the reward is worth the risk. It's just a bit weird to me that I didn't try at all, and she's being doing all the work.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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twentee

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Most ladies of the night DO have a "love interest" at some point in their lives, at least. Often it's another woman, tho.:) Many come to hate all men, fairly quickly. I'd say a lot depends upon whether or not you like her, how fat your wallet is, if you have other women, etc. She IS probably just after your money (for now) Dont carry much cash on you, nor cards with much money on them, or any access to your bank accounts. do NOT let her know what you drive, where you live or where you work. Not before you know a LOT more about her, at least. As in have met her family, know what SHE drives, where she lives, etc. You can end up dead, in ditch, or at least, knocked out and your money gone.
 

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Palagi9 said:
The question is, should I respond or not? I know on a base level, this is a lot of guys' dreams, but I know the risks and stigma that can surround these situations outside the strip club (they could be crazy), and I know sometimes this is a way for them to expand their customer base, so I wanna know if you guys think the reward is worth the risk. It's just a bit weird to me that I didn't try at all, and she's being doing all the work.
She's hustling.
 

HalfPUAHalfAFC

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BigNeil is the guy with experience with strippers around here... both banging them and dating them.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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