"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Need Stripper Dating Advice

Palagi9

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Hi, I'm new to all this, so kind of need some help/advice.

So, I went to a Strip Club last night and went to the VIP with a Stripper, we concluded our business, and I went back to the main floor. Later on that night she comes back to me and says hi, has a bit of a chat, and asks me for my number (i didn't ask, nor was I trying to get it). I give it to her, and she immediately texts me so I have her number.

Then, later the same night, after the club is closed, she sends me a Text Message saying it was nice to meet me, to which I reply roughly with a thanks and a likewise... then she responds asking me if I want to meet up today or tomorrow.

The question is, should I respond or not? I know on a base level, this is a lot of guys' dreams, but I know the risks and stigma that can surround these situations outside the strip club (they could be crazy), and I know sometimes this is a way for them to expand their customer base, so I wanna know if you guys think the reward is worth the risk. It's just a bit weird to me that I didn't try at all, and she's being doing all the work.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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twentee

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Most ladies of the night DO have a "love interest" at some point in their lives, at least. Often it's another woman, tho.:) Many come to hate all men, fairly quickly. I'd say a lot depends upon whether or not you like her, how fat your wallet is, if you have other women, etc. She IS probably just after your money (for now) Dont carry much cash on you, nor cards with much money on them, or any access to your bank accounts. do NOT let her know what you drive, where you live or where you work. Not before you know a LOT more about her, at least. As in have met her family, know what SHE drives, where she lives, etc. You can end up dead, in ditch, or at least, knocked out and your money gone.
 

Bokanovsky

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Palagi9 said:
The question is, should I respond or not? I know on a base level, this is a lot of guys' dreams, but I know the risks and stigma that can surround these situations outside the strip club (they could be crazy), and I know sometimes this is a way for them to expand their customer base, so I wanna know if you guys think the reward is worth the risk. It's just a bit weird to me that I didn't try at all, and she's being doing all the work.
She's hustling.
 

HalfPUAHalfAFC

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BigNeil is the guy with experience with strippers around here... both banging them and dating them.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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