"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Palagi9

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Hi, I'm new to all this, so kind of need some help/advice.

So, I went to a Strip Club last night and went to the VIP with a Stripper, we concluded our business, and I went back to the main floor. Later on that night she comes back to me and says hi, has a bit of a chat, and asks me for my number (i didn't ask, nor was I trying to get it). I give it to her, and she immediately texts me so I have her number.

Then, later the same night, after the club is closed, she sends me a Text Message saying it was nice to meet me, to which I reply roughly with a thanks and a likewise... then she responds asking me if I want to meet up today or tomorrow.

The question is, should I respond or not? I know on a base level, this is a lot of guys' dreams, but I know the risks and stigma that can surround these situations outside the strip club (they could be crazy), and I know sometimes this is a way for them to expand their customer base, so I wanna know if you guys think the reward is worth the risk. It's just a bit weird to me that I didn't try at all, and she's being doing all the work.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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twentee

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Most ladies of the night DO have a "love interest" at some point in their lives, at least. Often it's another woman, tho.:) Many come to hate all men, fairly quickly. I'd say a lot depends upon whether or not you like her, how fat your wallet is, if you have other women, etc. She IS probably just after your money (for now) Dont carry much cash on you, nor cards with much money on them, or any access to your bank accounts. do NOT let her know what you drive, where you live or where you work. Not before you know a LOT more about her, at least. As in have met her family, know what SHE drives, where she lives, etc. You can end up dead, in ditch, or at least, knocked out and your money gone.
 

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Palagi9 said:
The question is, should I respond or not? I know on a base level, this is a lot of guys' dreams, but I know the risks and stigma that can surround these situations outside the strip club (they could be crazy), and I know sometimes this is a way for them to expand their customer base, so I wanna know if you guys think the reward is worth the risk. It's just a bit weird to me that I didn't try at all, and she's being doing all the work.
She's hustling.
 

HalfPUAHalfAFC

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BigNeil is the guy with experience with strippers around here... both banging them and dating them.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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