"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Need some to talk sense in me

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Guys she tricked me, first called me with a private number which i didnt answer but then from a number i didnt know
I answered since i awaited a call from a place i had to get some stuff i bought but it was her.....
So she got a hold of me and rambled something about her warm socks that are still at my place and that we should meet sometime and i could bring them along...
Obviously not gonna do that but how low is that, trying every trick to get me to break NC.
I feel bad she got what she wanted...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Cazam said:
I feel bad she got what she wanted...
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Don't 'feel' anything, that's the her vs. you frame that she wants. Just let her do whatever she's going to do, let it slide off you like water off a duck's back, and move on with your focus on your life.
 
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Cazam said:
Guys she tricked me, first called me with a private number which i didnt answer but then from a number i didnt know
I answered since i awaited a call from a place i had to get some stuff i bought but it was her.....
So she got a hold of me and rambled something about her warm socks that are still at my place and that we should meet sometime and i could bring them along...
Obviously not gonna do that but how low is that, trying every trick to get me to break NC.
I feel bad she got what she wanted...
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Stay strong brother.

You are doing great.
 
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