"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Need some seriouis Don's advice here ;)

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so this is the spot where the top-dawgs hang out huh?:) aight cool ill explain.


This girl I like is else then every other girl I know, as soon as we made eyecontact I was obsessed with her (I know I should not be) but to me this is a once in a lifetime chance ya know ;) If i blow up this one I am in deep Shizzle ya know :p

I want to know what I should say and when to say it... I don't know much from her and only get see her twice a day one time 15 minutes and one time 30 minutes (school pauzes :p) so some help would be very welcome :):):) and I just hope you guys can help me out, I made a little map where you can see the situation (darn I look nerdy when I do this Shizzle).

what to say and when to say,

The beginning:

me: hey whatsup!
she: good, you? or good
me: ... dont know what to say xD

:p shouldnt be hard for you guys eh :p

http://img408.imageshack.us/img408/9587/mapaw7.png

^Link to the ''map'' lol ._.


So fire away mates ;)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Once she tells you good or not transition.. Pick out something that she's wearing and ask her about it or something. If not, ask for her opinion on something, which would lead to more things to talk about. Open your ears, theres thousands of things you could say, just pay attention to what she says.
 
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ok, cause this isnt weird at all you remind me of me in my BAFC days, not saying youre a BAFC but making graphs for other ppl kinda reminds me of me :p so I'll reply

Read the bilble first of all, some quick tips, what I do is get the girl attracted before Ive even talked to her, using body language, so you might want to start there.
 
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Learn M3:

Attraction -> Rapport -> Seduction

In THAT order. Pick up Mystery's Venusian Arts Handbook whilst your at it. It gives you some ideas for stories. OH and try "Conversation King," by Rachel Davis (or is it Davies?)
 
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TRY THE DAVAGINA CODE----cut n paste word for word examples of speed dating, net dating, day game, parties, actual emails, IM CHATS, with females. FUNNY pick up lines, cool first date ideas, money saving tips, pick up tactics, etc.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Yes, the 1 on 1 part Isn't so hard I think :

Me: Hey whatsup?
She:Hello, I'm fine you?
me:Meh, I'm good, I would be even better if you'd come to the city with me for a drink if you want?

Jumping in the group ... doesen't that look kinda freaky when suddenly someone form the other sex starts talking in your own social group? If a chick would do that by us we tottaly WTF her ... believe me ... it happens all the time xD
 
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