"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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need some place ideas for approaches in montreal!!

Canadien

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As it stands I talk to girls everytime in bus, so how do I take to next level?
I have never gone to clubs, and don't have clubbing friend, so this is out of question..

But, I am feeling this energy in me; however its blocked completely as I get into university, somehow all the excitement dies down there, as I am usually in computer room with almost no chance of interaction with girls.

so, What other place can I specifically pick exclusively for approaches? where I can stay for some time and pick and isolate my target? Its easy to isolate in bus as girl is waitimg in line, so is free to convers, where else can I get similar situation? I need a place where I can hang out for a bit, without looking like a loser..

I need to escalate my approaches, as I feel ready for the next level.
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Everywhere there's eligible women= a place for an approach...
Okay, maybe not during like Sunday mass or something like that, but otherwise...just do it.
 

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Canadien said:
As it stands I talk to girls everytime in bus, so how do I take to next level?
I have never gone to clubs, and don't have clubbing friend, so this is out of question..

But, I am feeling this energy in me; however its blocked completely as I get into university, somehow all the excitement dies down there, as I am usually in computer room with almost no chance of interaction with girls.

so, What other place can I specifically pick exclusively for approaches? where I can stay for some time and pick and isolate my target? Its easy to isolate in bus as girl is waitimg in line, so is free to convers, where else can I get similar situation? I need a place where I can hang out for a bit, without looking like a loser..

I need to escalate my approaches, as I feel ready for the next level...
just do a search, you'll come up with tons of stuff and about the computer room at ur university.. i was visiting a friend of mine at his university and i as i was passing the computer lab i saw two hotties.

started talking to both of them one wasn't intrested and ended up leaveing but it was a win, win the one i talked up ended up comign downstairs with me to have a smoke, and then she invited me back up for some extra curricular activites.

you need to be in a mind set to just capatalize off of every oppertunity you see.. just because its a lame computer lab means nothing.
 

spesmilitis

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Heard all sorts of stories about montreal. Its like the las vegas of canada. If I were you, i'd try clubbling at least once. Talk to random girls, and see if you catch your self in some sorta crazy situation.
 

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Start at 7 in the morning start at st. catherines street and work your way through every mall. By the time next friday comes around you'll be so hyped about sarging strip clubs and streets other than st cats that you'll never ask this question again.

st cats centers food court was more than enough for me for three days straight. And that was when I was too shy to walk into clothing stores like 6 years ago, I still sarged, but I did it in an xxl large t-shirt on a small frame and opened with a smile and a straight back. I can only imagine how much fun montreal would be to sarge with what I know today.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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