"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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need some place ideas for approaches in montreal!!

Canadien

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As it stands I talk to girls everytime in bus, so how do I take to next level?
I have never gone to clubs, and don't have clubbing friend, so this is out of question..

But, I am feeling this energy in me; however its blocked completely as I get into university, somehow all the excitement dies down there, as I am usually in computer room with almost no chance of interaction with girls.

so, What other place can I specifically pick exclusively for approaches? where I can stay for some time and pick and isolate my target? Its easy to isolate in bus as girl is waitimg in line, so is free to convers, where else can I get similar situation? I need a place where I can hang out for a bit, without looking like a loser..

I need to escalate my approaches, as I feel ready for the next level.
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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EdHunter

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Everywhere there's eligible women= a place for an approach...
Okay, maybe not during like Sunday mass or something like that, but otherwise...just do it.
 

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Canadien said:
As it stands I talk to girls everytime in bus, so how do I take to next level?
I have never gone to clubs, and don't have clubbing friend, so this is out of question..

But, I am feeling this energy in me; however its blocked completely as I get into university, somehow all the excitement dies down there, as I am usually in computer room with almost no chance of interaction with girls.

so, What other place can I specifically pick exclusively for approaches? where I can stay for some time and pick and isolate my target? Its easy to isolate in bus as girl is waitimg in line, so is free to convers, where else can I get similar situation? I need a place where I can hang out for a bit, without looking like a loser..

I need to escalate my approaches, as I feel ready for the next level...
just do a search, you'll come up with tons of stuff and about the computer room at ur university.. i was visiting a friend of mine at his university and i as i was passing the computer lab i saw two hotties.

started talking to both of them one wasn't intrested and ended up leaveing but it was a win, win the one i talked up ended up comign downstairs with me to have a smoke, and then she invited me back up for some extra curricular activites.

you need to be in a mind set to just capatalize off of every oppertunity you see.. just because its a lame computer lab means nothing.
 

spesmilitis

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Heard all sorts of stories about montreal. Its like the las vegas of canada. If I were you, i'd try clubbling at least once. Talk to random girls, and see if you catch your self in some sorta crazy situation.
 

Bonez

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Start at 7 in the morning start at st. catherines street and work your way through every mall. By the time next friday comes around you'll be so hyped about sarging strip clubs and streets other than st cats that you'll never ask this question again.

st cats centers food court was more than enough for me for three days straight. And that was when I was too shy to walk into clothing stores like 6 years ago, I still sarged, but I did it in an xxl large t-shirt on a small frame and opened with a smile and a straight back. I can only imagine how much fun montreal would be to sarge with what I know today.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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