"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Need some opinions on this chick, maybe a flake.

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2 weeks ago i met this chick in class,really into me and everything. I'd say she's a 6.9. Good body though. Anyways today were walking after class and she was really digging it, we were brushing sides while walking. She even mentioned how it was intended for us to be leaving at the same time or something. I used a little kino while talking, she didnt use any on me. Im not really attracted to her at all i just wanna fvck.The class is on break btw. So she says she has to use the bathroom and im like ok come back here when your done, I said it twice and serious, and she giggled and said "ok!". Sure enough I wait out there for like 5+ mins and look at my phone and break is already over. She doesnt show.

It didnt piss me off at the time, but I was thinking about waiting for her after class was over and im like nah fvck that b1tch. She may ignore me again and fvckin leave me sittin by myself again. Anyways, i wanna ask you guys if iam being to analytical? is this like a potential flake? This dumb sh1t always happens when im dealing with non hot girls.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Why didn't you wait for her?

Maybe it took her a little bit more time to pee, and put on make up or w/e she needed to do there.

I think you blew it.
 
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The_Wolf said:
Why didn't you wait for her?

Maybe it took her a little bit more time to pee, and put on make up or w/e she needed to do there.

I think you blew it.
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ya that may be the case but dont you think she could've at least came back over to me and said hey breaks over lets go in? i came back into class and she was already there.
 
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Did you say anything to her in class afterwards?

I mean, you told her you'd stay...and then you left.
 
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The_Wolf said:
Did you say anything to her in class afterwards?

I mean, you told her you'd stay...and then you left.
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I believe you are not comprehending me. I might've typed the story in a confusing way. the class is a long class so we have a 15 min break in the middle. during the break we walked around, and i wanted to sit, she said she had to use the john. I told her to come back here, she said she would. I wait. Go back to class. There she is.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Sounds like disrespect. I wouldn't tolerate that. She would really have to do something special for me to be interested in her again.
 
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Calm down. Nothing to worry about this time. However, try another setting, try to get a number, or coffee or lunch, and go from there. That set of circumstances just wasn't a good one to work with.
 
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Ask her if she's got Alzheimer's or something... I don't think it was particularly difficult for her to remember you were waiting for her.
 
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