Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Need some opinions on this chick, maybe a flake.

gimmeyofonenumba

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2 weeks ago i met this chick in class,really into me and everything. I'd say she's a 6.9. Good body though. Anyways today were walking after class and she was really digging it, we were brushing sides while walking. She even mentioned how it was intended for us to be leaving at the same time or something. I used a little kino while talking, she didnt use any on me. Im not really attracted to her at all i just wanna fvck.The class is on break btw. So she says she has to use the bathroom and im like ok come back here when your done, I said it twice and serious, and she giggled and said "ok!". Sure enough I wait out there for like 5+ mins and look at my phone and break is already over. She doesnt show.

It didnt piss me off at the time, but I was thinking about waiting for her after class was over and im like nah fvck that b1tch. She may ignore me again and fvckin leave me sittin by myself again. Anyways, i wanna ask you guys if iam being to analytical? is this like a potential flake? This dumb sh1t always happens when im dealing with non hot girls.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Why didn't you wait for her?

Maybe it took her a little bit more time to pee, and put on make up or w/e she needed to do there.

I think you blew it.
 

gimmeyofonenumba

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The_Wolf said:
Why didn't you wait for her?

Maybe it took her a little bit more time to pee, and put on make up or w/e she needed to do there.

I think you blew it.
ya that may be the case but dont you think she could've at least came back over to me and said hey breaks over lets go in? i came back into class and she was already there.
 

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Did you say anything to her in class afterwards?

I mean, you told her you'd stay...and then you left.
 

gimmeyofonenumba

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The_Wolf said:
Did you say anything to her in class afterwards?

I mean, you told her you'd stay...and then you left.
I believe you are not comprehending me. I might've typed the story in a confusing way. the class is a long class so we have a 15 min break in the middle. during the break we walked around, and i wanted to sit, she said she had to use the john. I told her to come back here, she said she would. I wait. Go back to class. There she is.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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ryannath

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Sounds like disrespect. I wouldn't tolerate that. She would really have to do something special for me to be interested in her again.
 

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Calm down. Nothing to worry about this time. However, try another setting, try to get a number, or coffee or lunch, and go from there. That set of circumstances just wasn't a good one to work with.
 

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Ask her if she's got Alzheimer's or something... I don't think it was particularly difficult for her to remember you were waiting for her.
 
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