"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Need some openers for university, that would last longer..

Canadien

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So, as it stands I am becoming almost perfect in looks, and get WOW reaction even before the opener, however my openers seems to be really small and I can't detect real interactions out of them, is there any library of sources of things to say, if not then please give me some ideas..

I am a very good conversationalist, its just I need to break through the first stages of resistance, if that happens then I'm all set, as I can carry conversations very easily.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Canadien said:
So, as it stands I am becoming almost perfect in looks, and get WOW reaction even before the opener, however my openers seems to be really small and I can't detect real interactions out of them, is there any library of sources of things to say, if not then please give me some ideas..

I am a very good conversationalist, its just I need to break through the first stages of resistance, if that happens then I'm all set, as I can carry conversations very easily.
What do you mean you're perfect in looks, like girls are checking you out and giving you eye contact and other approach invitations? If so, then you really don't need anything special at all. A "Hey, how are you doing", should work just fine.
 

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but I have changed so much

KossHP said:
What do you mean you're perfect in looks, like girls are checking you out and giving you eye contact and other approach invitations? If so, then you really don't need anything special at all. A "Hey, how are you doing", should work just fine.

in last three months and thats why I'm less receptive to their IoI's, It like I wasn't getting any interests before, and now that I change my dress code, and am more aware of the game, girls seems to be more attracted to me like a magnet...

So how do guys handle being chased down by girls, if I become the prize then am I playing the girls role now?
 

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perfection is rarely realized in humans, in any endeavor. Also I think it takes longer than 3 months, if you're referring to self actualization. Plus you already can't be perfect because youre from canada! jk jk. If you are a really good looking guy you might want to tone the CF down a little bit in field. If you're rockin a hot bod and a good face, being humble goes along way. Confident and assertive will work better for you than ****y and aggressive. Be prepared for more initial coldness and more LMR from some girls if you are high on the looks scale. .. because they think you do this all the time with other girls.

One of my faves from college...sit down at the barstool next to them.."hi, thought i'd introduce myself since we're bar buddies now" or just hi followd by anything.

Ask detailed directions to somewhere, she might even walk with you to show you, opportunity for # or more convo. It helps sincerity if you actually do need directions. Met a hottie like that at my grad school last week but didn't ask for the # close..oops! At the library, ask a spelling question. Ask about a certain course requirement or if she knows anyone who is a " insert major" like you who knows professor xxx...

Also social circles!!! sports clubs, volunteering, community involvement, not an opener but good places to open.
 
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