"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Need some openers for university, that would last longer..

Canadien

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So, as it stands I am becoming almost perfect in looks, and get WOW reaction even before the opener, however my openers seems to be really small and I can't detect real interactions out of them, is there any library of sources of things to say, if not then please give me some ideas..

I am a very good conversationalist, its just I need to break through the first stages of resistance, if that happens then I'm all set, as I can carry conversations very easily.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Canadien said:
So, as it stands I am becoming almost perfect in looks, and get WOW reaction even before the opener, however my openers seems to be really small and I can't detect real interactions out of them, is there any library of sources of things to say, if not then please give me some ideas..

I am a very good conversationalist, its just I need to break through the first stages of resistance, if that happens then I'm all set, as I can carry conversations very easily.
What do you mean you're perfect in looks, like girls are checking you out and giving you eye contact and other approach invitations? If so, then you really don't need anything special at all. A "Hey, how are you doing", should work just fine.
 

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but I have changed so much

KossHP said:
What do you mean you're perfect in looks, like girls are checking you out and giving you eye contact and other approach invitations? If so, then you really don't need anything special at all. A "Hey, how are you doing", should work just fine.

in last three months and thats why I'm less receptive to their IoI's, It like I wasn't getting any interests before, and now that I change my dress code, and am more aware of the game, girls seems to be more attracted to me like a magnet...

So how do guys handle being chased down by girls, if I become the prize then am I playing the girls role now?
 

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perfection is rarely realized in humans, in any endeavor. Also I think it takes longer than 3 months, if you're referring to self actualization. Plus you already can't be perfect because youre from canada! jk jk. If you are a really good looking guy you might want to tone the CF down a little bit in field. If you're rockin a hot bod and a good face, being humble goes along way. Confident and assertive will work better for you than ****y and aggressive. Be prepared for more initial coldness and more LMR from some girls if you are high on the looks scale. .. because they think you do this all the time with other girls.

One of my faves from college...sit down at the barstool next to them.."hi, thought i'd introduce myself since we're bar buddies now" or just hi followd by anything.

Ask detailed directions to somewhere, she might even walk with you to show you, opportunity for # or more convo. It helps sincerity if you actually do need directions. Met a hottie like that at my grad school last week but didn't ask for the # close..oops! At the library, ask a spelling question. Ask about a certain course requirement or if she knows anyone who is a " insert major" like you who knows professor xxx...

Also social circles!!! sports clubs, volunteering, community involvement, not an opener but good places to open.
 
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