"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Need some motivational speaches to approach this girl in my class

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Shivastorm_88

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Ok so there is this girl in my philosophy class who is absolutely GORGEOUS! Although not in a slutty way, she is simply extremely beautiful, easily HB 10, and it brought my standards for HB10 to a whole new level (yes I sound AFC, I know). The problem is, I can't find the guts to approach her (yes sad, I know). I really want to though, but I'm scared I'll actually be intimidated (yes even sadder, I know) and the fact that she is always with two girlfriends doesn't help either.

All I'm looking from this thread is advice, trashing, motivation to approach this girl. Feel free to insult me if you must, it will most probably simply boost my drive to actually make an approach. :D
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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get pvssy, don't be one!

Haha, i don't know man, just do it. There is nothing to fear but fear itself. What's the worst she can say---no? Hell no? This is some silly girl, not somebody who's going to cut your head off for saying the wrong thing.
 
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"If I have lost confidence in myself, I have the universe against me."

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just talk to her. it doesnt have to be about seducing her or anything. just think of her as a person.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Your biggest problem is you are living a fantasy before you meet her. You must bring her down to earth in your mind and just talk to her like any other girl. She has nothing going for her besides her looks at this point so try learning something about her. First, you must learn what you are looking before besides pretty smile, tits and ass, because you must sincerely QUALIFY her to cause her to become attracted to you.
 
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