“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Need some motivational speaches to approach this girl in my class

Shivastorm_88

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Ok so there is this girl in my philosophy class who is absolutely GORGEOUS! Although not in a slutty way, she is simply extremely beautiful, easily HB 10, and it brought my standards for HB10 to a whole new level (yes I sound AFC, I know). The problem is, I can't find the guts to approach her (yes sad, I know). I really want to though, but I'm scared I'll actually be intimidated (yes even sadder, I know) and the fact that she is always with two girlfriends doesn't help either.

All I'm looking from this thread is advice, trashing, motivation to approach this girl. Feel free to insult me if you must, it will most probably simply boost my drive to actually make an approach. :D
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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MooseGod

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get pvssy, don't be one!

Haha, i don't know man, just do it. There is nothing to fear but fear itself. What's the worst she can say---no? Hell no? This is some silly girl, not somebody who's going to cut your head off for saying the wrong thing.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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"If I have lost confidence in myself, I have the universe against me."

-Emerson
 

jt the azn

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just talk to her. it doesnt have to be about seducing her or anything. just think of her as a person.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Your biggest problem is you are living a fantasy before you meet her. You must bring her down to earth in your mind and just talk to her like any other girl. She has nothing going for her besides her looks at this point so try learning something about her. First, you must learn what you are looking before besides pretty smile, tits and ass, because you must sincerely QUALIFY her to cause her to become attracted to you.
 
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