"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Need some motivational speaches to approach this girl in my class

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Shivastorm_88

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Ok so there is this girl in my philosophy class who is absolutely GORGEOUS! Although not in a slutty way, she is simply extremely beautiful, easily HB 10, and it brought my standards for HB10 to a whole new level (yes I sound AFC, I know). The problem is, I can't find the guts to approach her (yes sad, I know). I really want to though, but I'm scared I'll actually be intimidated (yes even sadder, I know) and the fact that she is always with two girlfriends doesn't help either.

All I'm looking from this thread is advice, trashing, motivation to approach this girl. Feel free to insult me if you must, it will most probably simply boost my drive to actually make an approach. :D
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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get pvssy, don't be one!

Haha, i don't know man, just do it. There is nothing to fear but fear itself. What's the worst she can say---no? Hell no? This is some silly girl, not somebody who's going to cut your head off for saying the wrong thing.
 
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Francisco d'Anconia

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"If I have lost confidence in myself, I have the universe against me."

-Emerson
 
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jt the azn

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just talk to her. it doesnt have to be about seducing her or anything. just think of her as a person.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Your biggest problem is you are living a fantasy before you meet her. You must bring her down to earth in your mind and just talk to her like any other girl. She has nothing going for her besides her looks at this point so try learning something about her. First, you must learn what you are looking before besides pretty smile, tits and ass, because you must sincerely QUALIFY her to cause her to become attracted to you.
 
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