So yeah, I'm starting to not see the point in dating. I don't have a problem getting girls on dates but it ends after 1 date. Doesn't really matter what I do. I've tried isolating and making out, trying to pull back to my place, only giving a simple kiss, not giving any kiss. Results seem to always be the same, that they don't want to hang out anymore. The ****ed up thing is is that on the date I'll think that they are interested but I'm obviously wrong. Just don't see the whole point of it when girls don't seem interested in me (and no, I don't have any obvious defects). I know this is probably just a case of losing motivation but still.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Need some motivation. What's the point of the game/dating when girls arent interested
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
DonGorgon
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the reason is that most women are hos and when they agree to spend time with you they expect you to be able to turn them on and F them that night... if for what ever reason they dont F you it does not matter ! they only give you one chance at it... Too many men still think that females are looking for new boyfriends and relationships etc...loll most times when you meet a woman she has several men in her life giving her money sex home car food etc etc she just wants to hang with new guys to have some fun and will usually only at you to her main team of regulars if you do something better for her than what those guys are doing..
So the point is focus on getting layed as quickly and cheaply as you can.. dont start liking them or treating hem too good.. just try to turn them on enough to F if you F them very verry well she just may add you to her F buddy list...lol
So the point is focus on getting layed as quickly and cheaply as you can.. dont start liking them or treating hem too good.. just try to turn them on enough to F if you F them very verry well she just may add you to her F buddy list...lol
I'm not gonna post a pic of myself, but I'm decent looking enough (average to above average). I look a little young (I'm 25 but could probably pass for 20 when I shave) but looks aren't the problem.
My attitude is ok other than being annoyed by what's happening (only because I don't know what's up)
My attitude is ok other than being annoyed by what's happening (only because I don't know what's up)
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
