"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Need some motivation. What's the point of the game/dating when girls arent interested

Kal0051

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So yeah, I'm starting to not see the point in dating. I don't have a problem getting girls on dates but it ends after 1 date. Doesn't really matter what I do. I've tried isolating and making out, trying to pull back to my place, only giving a simple kiss, not giving any kiss. Results seem to always be the same, that they don't want to hang out anymore. The ****ed up thing is is that on the date I'll think that they are interested but I'm obviously wrong. Just don't see the whole point of it when girls don't seem interested in me (and no, I don't have any obvious defects). I know this is probably just a case of losing motivation but still.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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the reason is that most women are hos and when they agree to spend time with you they expect you to be able to turn them on and F them that night... if for what ever reason they dont F you it does not matter ! they only give you one chance at it... Too many men still think that females are looking for new boyfriends and relationships etc...loll most times when you meet a woman she has several men in her life giving her money sex home car food etc etc she just wants to hang with new guys to have some fun and will usually only at you to her main team of regulars if you do something better for her than what those guys are doing..

So the point is focus on getting layed as quickly and cheaply as you can.. dont start liking them or treating hem too good.. just try to turn them on enough to F if you F them very verry well she just may add you to her F buddy list...lol
 

Kal0051

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yeah well I don't know how to f women on the first night. I'm still a virgin and am passed the point in life where people just randomly hook up for no reason. So I guess I'm ****ed eh?
 

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post a picture of yourself.

unless you have a 3rd eyeball then its because of your attitude.
 

Kal0051

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I'm not gonna post a pic of myself, but I'm decent looking enough (average to above average). I look a little young (I'm 25 but could probably pass for 20 when I shave) but looks aren't the problem.

My attitude is ok other than being annoyed by what's happening (only because I don't know what's up)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Well, i still think you can hook up randomly at that age...
You can definitely hook up randomly at that age.
 
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