“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by jigga23
Ok quick bg: broke up with GF with her almost 2 years. lived with her for about 8 months. broke up 2 weeks ago. (she needed time to herself, cause she has to write her thesis to get her masters this semester) understandable. I moved about 1hour away from her. Ive talked to her about5-6 times in the last 2 weeks. Saw her last week to drop of the dog. When I saw her acted standoffish then opened up a little. Slept over but i didnt try to do anything with her. We kissed earlier in the night thats it. I just went straight to bed. The next morning we got in a bad argument over pointless sh!t. dont know the exact reason. This last week I called her once but didnt even talk to her. She called me sat to b1tch about something. Then we eventually planned that she would come down so i could take the dog for a week. So she comes down yesterday. When she came i acted all happy and everything didnt bring up any thing about our relationship just acted normal. I was laying in bed with no intention of trying to fvck her so as im laying there she initiates and lays close to me and we give a mutual kiss on the lips and she pulls me on her and we start to bone. she gets off and was going crazy saying "i dont know even were I am right now" I railed her and we cuddled. When i woke up she left and she came over to give me a kiss on the lips. Things seemed pretty good overall.

Heres the question: I dont konw what she wants from me. I dont know if shes doing other guys or anything. im not going to ask atleast not right now But i do want to have her back as my gf. Should i just not bring up the topic...not call her at all only answer if she calls. Basically just turn my back on her just to play it like im not interested in her then on valentines day plan something very romantic with her and ask her if she wants to get back together?I dont think neither of us want to cut it off any other suggestions

she's done with you. forget her.

peace.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Heres the question: I dont konw what she wants from me. I dont know if shes doing other guys or anything.
You'll quit caring about what she's doing if you quit contacting her. Let her have the dog and cut ALL ties with her. You're letting her drag the ending of this relationship through the mud. It's over.
 
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