"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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need some mature advice

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Originally posted by jigga23
Ok quick bg: broke up with GF with her almost 2 years. lived with her for about 8 months. broke up 2 weeks ago. (she needed time to herself, cause she has to write her thesis to get her masters this semester) understandable. I moved about 1hour away from her. Ive talked to her about5-6 times in the last 2 weeks. Saw her last week to drop of the dog. When I saw her acted standoffish then opened up a little. Slept over but i didnt try to do anything with her. We kissed earlier in the night thats it. I just went straight to bed. The next morning we got in a bad argument over pointless sh!t. dont know the exact reason. This last week I called her once but didnt even talk to her. She called me sat to b1tch about something. Then we eventually planned that she would come down so i could take the dog for a week. So she comes down yesterday. When she came i acted all happy and everything didnt bring up any thing about our relationship just acted normal. I was laying in bed with no intention of trying to fvck her so as im laying there she initiates and lays close to me and we give a mutual kiss on the lips and she pulls me on her and we start to bone. she gets off and was going crazy saying "i dont know even were I am right now" I railed her and we cuddled. When i woke up she left and she came over to give me a kiss on the lips. Things seemed pretty good overall.

Heres the question: I dont konw what she wants from me. I dont know if shes doing other guys or anything. im not going to ask atleast not right now But i do want to have her back as my gf. Should i just not bring up the topic...not call her at all only answer if she calls. Basically just turn my back on her just to play it like im not interested in her then on valentines day plan something very romantic with her and ask her if she wants to get back together?I dont think neither of us want to cut it off any other suggestions
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she's done with you. forget her.

peace.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Heres the question: I dont konw what she wants from me. I dont know if shes doing other guys or anything.
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You'll quit caring about what she's doing if you quit contacting her. Let her have the dog and cut ALL ties with her. You're letting her drag the ending of this relationship through the mud. It's over.
 
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