Just A Guy...
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Okay, here's the deal. I know that two of the most popular questions on any site of this type are "How do I tell if she's into me?" and "How do I let her know I'm interested in more than just friendship?". Because no two situations are identical, there is no universal correct answer. So I'm going to describe my situation as vividly as possible.
I met this girl through a mutual friend. Since then, said girl and I have kept in contact via various social networking websites. We've got similar interests, so there's not a lack of conversation material. We've only actually hung out twice, the first time at a concert (where we met), and the second at a party the other night. The first time we met, I used some kino type stuff. So she's obviously comfortable with me touching her. We've talked on the phone several times, and have flirted a little during these conversations. In fact, many of these phone conversations were At the party, there was a little more flirting, and it was a little more intense.
She lives about an hour away. But I know that she's done the long distance thing before with a longer distance than that, so that's not really a problem. Anyway, the catch is that I'm moving in about a month, and will be about four and a half hours away.
I'm confident in my abilities, and she seems cool enough NOT to freak out if I asked her out. My problem will be trying to convince her (if it DOES go somewhere) that it's worth giving it a shot. I'm hoping that someone who has had some experience in long distance relationships will read this and have some advice for me. Could I pull this off (and if so, how?), or is it not worth the effort?
I met this girl through a mutual friend. Since then, said girl and I have kept in contact via various social networking websites. We've got similar interests, so there's not a lack of conversation material. We've only actually hung out twice, the first time at a concert (where we met), and the second at a party the other night. The first time we met, I used some kino type stuff. So she's obviously comfortable with me touching her. We've talked on the phone several times, and have flirted a little during these conversations. In fact, many of these phone conversations were At the party, there was a little more flirting, and it was a little more intense.
She lives about an hour away. But I know that she's done the long distance thing before with a longer distance than that, so that's not really a problem. Anyway, the catch is that I'm moving in about a month, and will be about four and a half hours away.
I'm confident in my abilities, and she seems cool enough NOT to freak out if I asked her out. My problem will be trying to convince her (if it DOES go somewhere) that it's worth giving it a shot. I'm hoping that someone who has had some experience in long distance relationships will read this and have some advice for me. Could I pull this off (and if so, how?), or is it not worth the effort?