"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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loc2dabrain

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ok guys i had a quick question im still totally a newb and not as good as any of you im still learning about all this stuff but i was wondering what are good ways to reply when girls like ask u to do stuff for them i dont wanna be the nice guy all the time and be like their *****. i want to know what to say but not come off like a total ******* and make them jump through my hoops thanks for any help u can give me.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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girl_in_a_boy_forum

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How well do you know these girls and what kind of things are they asking you do? If it's just a common courtesy thing that you should help *anyone* with, then no problems there. If it's more along the lines of "can you go get ______ for me?" when the girl is perfectly capable of getting it herself, call her a lazyass, because in that case she is, or reply with a "what's in it for me?" vibe. Never go out of your way for or do a girl an actual big favor unless you're really into each other, and even then try to keep it in moderation.

Look for less needy girls.
 

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Try and turn it around. If she says "Can you put that in the bin for me?" you reply "If you do it yourself, and put this in it for me." Giving her a random bit of paper or something "I'll give you a treat."

If she does it, then she's passed a compiance test and give her a IOI as her treat. If not give her a IOD.
 
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