"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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loc2dabrain

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ok guys i had a quick question im still totally a newb and not as good as any of you im still learning about all this stuff but i was wondering what are good ways to reply when girls like ask u to do stuff for them i dont wanna be the nice guy all the time and be like their *****. i want to know what to say but not come off like a total ******* and make them jump through my hoops thanks for any help u can give me.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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girl_in_a_boy_forum

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How well do you know these girls and what kind of things are they asking you do? If it's just a common courtesy thing that you should help *anyone* with, then no problems there. If it's more along the lines of "can you go get ______ for me?" when the girl is perfectly capable of getting it herself, call her a lazyass, because in that case she is, or reply with a "what's in it for me?" vibe. Never go out of your way for or do a girl an actual big favor unless you're really into each other, and even then try to keep it in moderation.

Look for less needy girls.
 

Plec07

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Try and turn it around. If she says "Can you put that in the bin for me?" you reply "If you do it yourself, and put this in it for me." Giving her a random bit of paper or something "I'll give you a treat."

If she does it, then she's passed a compiance test and give her a IOI as her treat. If not give her a IOD.
 
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