need some help with situation

[SexayManDotCom]

Aight so i got this fine girl i'm talkin to we hook up get her back to my house u can figure out the rest. She calls me later that night and says she wants things to stay the same but she doesn't want the gf/bf title she wants some time cause things seem like they r going to fast.

Now i was in this same damn situation bout a year ago with a girl i cared alot about. and after i gave her time (3 weeks is all it took) she had hooked up with someone else.

That **** really hurt cause i had known the girl for 5 years and didn't really expect it to go that way.

Now i explained this to the girl i'm talking to now and told her i don't wanna put myself in the position again and she swears up and down that it won't be like that. Her exact words are, "I need sometime because of things that happened in old relationships, but i want only want to be with you when i'm ready."

So what do i do........give her time and see how things go......or......let that be it and find someone else.

This happened like 3 days ago and so far nothing has changed. She doesn't let any other guys touch her she always pushes em away and tells them shes already talkin to someone. She still wants to hug and kiss and all that. It's like she wants it to seem like we are together in every aspect except the fact that we'd accually be together.

To me it seems like she is into me and all, but then again it seemed like the last girl was also and that didn't turn out so well.

Anyone got some opinions as to what i should do?

 

[Mr. Debonaire]

who cares?

if your the one she's with, what does it matter if your "official"
your already getting all the benefits, plus you can still mess around with other girls.

why is there a problem here?

 

[SexayManDotCom]

because she doesn't want to me mess around with other girls

and last time this happened i was the only one she was with (or so i thought) until 3 weeks went by.

 

[Mr. Debonaire]

if she doesn't want you to mess around with other girls, then she'll make it official. tell her as much. she doesn't run your life, so don't let her

 

[Michael Chief]

Yeah, Mr. Debonaire took the words right out of my mouth.

By the way, this b!tch is giving you some MAJOR bullsh!t. You've got to communicate that you wont put up with that. Either she's in or she's out. Don't let her waste your time or "break your heart."

She's full of sh!t.
There are plenty of fish in the sea, so stop fishing in the sewer.

woah...im good haha