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Don Juan
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Aight so i got this fine girl i'm talkin to we hook up get her back to my house u can figure out the rest. She calls me later that night and says she wants things to stay the same but she doesn't want the gf/bf title she wants some time cause things seem like they r going to fast.
Now i was in this same damn situation bout a year ago with a girl i cared alot about. and after i gave her time (3 weeks is all it took) she had hooked up with someone else.
That **** really hurt cause i had known the girl for 5 years and didn't really expect it to go that way.
Now i explained this to the girl i'm talking to now and told her i don't wanna put myself in the position again and she swears up and down that it won't be like that. Her exact words are, "I need sometime because of things that happened in old relationships, but i want only want to be with you when i'm ready."
So what do i do........give her time and see how things go......or......let that be it and find someone else.
This happened like 3 days ago and so far nothing has changed. She doesn't let any other guys touch her she always pushes em away and tells them shes already talkin to someone. She still wants to hug and kiss and all that. It's like she wants it to seem like we are together in every aspect except the fact that we'd accually be together.
To me it seems like she is into me and all, but then again it seemed like the last girl was also and that didn't turn out so well.
Anyone got some opinions as to what i should do?
Now i was in this same damn situation bout a year ago with a girl i cared alot about. and after i gave her time (3 weeks is all it took) she had hooked up with someone else.
That **** really hurt cause i had known the girl for 5 years and didn't really expect it to go that way.
Now i explained this to the girl i'm talking to now and told her i don't wanna put myself in the position again and she swears up and down that it won't be like that. Her exact words are, "I need sometime because of things that happened in old relationships, but i want only want to be with you when i'm ready."
So what do i do........give her time and see how things go......or......let that be it and find someone else.
This happened like 3 days ago and so far nothing has changed. She doesn't let any other guys touch her she always pushes em away and tells them shes already talkin to someone. She still wants to hug and kiss and all that. It's like she wants it to seem like we are together in every aspect except the fact that we'd accually be together.
To me it seems like she is into me and all, but then again it seemed like the last girl was also and that didn't turn out so well.
Anyone got some opinions as to what i should do?
