Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Need some help with shirt size!

Romeo1

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Hey guys i need some help with the right size of long/short shirt size,it drives me nuts when i get paid and would like a nice shirt on sale and cant decide what size of shirt to get damm? Im 5'9 170 pounds,mesomorph body, about 20% body fat,consider myself chubby and dont feel good in a medium and always decide getting large cause it covers my belly a bit and feels better,as for medium makes me look chubby,so i never get them in that size, i get large. But somehow when i put the large on i doubt that they are to big?:confused:
Damm i just wanna know the right thing so i can settle it in my mind?
Any help will be appreciated! Thanks
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Julius_Seizeher

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Maybe...try stuff on before you buy it, give it a little extra room to shrink?

But before you buy a bunch of clothes you should be running a bunch of miles and lifting a bunch of weights. My legions are no place for fatbodies!
 

Romeo1

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To Julius

Hey man i do try things on! And i do choose what feels good and looks good to me,but im not a fashion expert and would like to know what is right for me.And you have a good point i should wait,till i get my body in the condition that i desire!

Thanks!
 

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I'm 5'9 170 around 18%bf.
I have the same problem as you... which is why I've been doing a lot of cardio lately, however, for now I wear large... once I get that belly thing taken care of I think medium would fit me perfect
 
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