"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Need some help with shirt size!

Romeo1

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Hey guys i need some help with the right size of long/short shirt size,it drives me nuts when i get paid and would like a nice shirt on sale and cant decide what size of shirt to get damm? Im 5'9 170 pounds,mesomorph body, about 20% body fat,consider myself chubby and dont feel good in a medium and always decide getting large cause it covers my belly a bit and feels better,as for medium makes me look chubby,so i never get them in that size, i get large. But somehow when i put the large on i doubt that they are to big?:confused:
Damm i just wanna know the right thing so i can settle it in my mind?
Any help will be appreciated! Thanks
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Julius_Seizeher

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Maybe...try stuff on before you buy it, give it a little extra room to shrink?

But before you buy a bunch of clothes you should be running a bunch of miles and lifting a bunch of weights. My legions are no place for fatbodies!
 

Romeo1

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To Julius

Hey man i do try things on! And i do choose what feels good and looks good to me,but im not a fashion expert and would like to know what is right for me.And you have a good point i should wait,till i get my body in the condition that i desire!

Thanks!
 

Xx1

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I'm 5'9 170 around 18%bf.
I have the same problem as you... which is why I've been doing a lot of cardio lately, however, for now I wear large... once I get that belly thing taken care of I think medium would fit me perfect
 
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