Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Need Some Help really quick with women playing w/ hair

DJnoob

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I dont get this... ok here is the problem.

I'd be talking to some women and ALL OF THE SUDDEN they would start playing with their hair as if they wanted me to notice it right there on the spot which I did but wasnt sure what it means..

I know for a fact from stuff i read that when women play with their hair, they are a. flirting b. feel comfortable..

Im not sure.

This ever happend to you guys? and what did you do? and were assumptions were right about that chick liking you?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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milrenkb

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DJnoob said:
I dont get this... ok here is the problem.

I'd be talking to some women and ALL OF THE SUDDEN they would start playing with their hair as if they wanted me to notice it right there on the spot which I did but wasnt sure what it means..

I know for a fact from stuff i read that when women play with their hair, they are a. flirting b. feel comfortable..

Im not sure.

This ever happend to you guys? and what did you do? and were assumptions were right about that chick liking you?

All the time man. Actually I think its better to go on 2 things
1. Is she engaging you?

2. Is she responsive to your kino or better yet is she iniating some kino of her own?

Body language is a very intresting subject but sometimes you can get too caught up it in it.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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How's the rapport between the two of you, is there mutual interest? If so take it as an opening. Notice her enjoyment of playing with herself (er, her hair) and join her. How you go about accomplishing that is up to you. ;)
 

DJnoob

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THey just strangers, err customers..I work in a grocery store
 

Call_Me_Daddy

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DJnoob said:
THey just strangers, err customers..I work in a grocery store
Unless you're eye candy or they're fat... they really don't care. That's probly a habit.

If it happens outside of work... that's different.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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After posting four hundred times, you're still posting a question like this? Think about how useful this board has been to you if that's the case.

DJnoob said:
I dont get this... ok here is the problem.

I'd be talking to some women and ALL OF THE SUDDEN they would start playing with their hair as if they wanted me to notice it right there on the spot which I did but wasnt sure what it means..

I know for a fact from stuff i read that when women play with their hair, they are a. flirting b. feel comfortable..

Im not sure.

This ever happend to you guys? and what did you do? and were assumptions were right about that chick liking you?
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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DJnoob said:
THey just strangers, err customers..I work in a grocery store
Then just sarge them up and get them to meet you somewhere other than the store. You'll be able to use kino then (if you're good).
 

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my daughter plays with her hair when she is sleepy or bored, she does not do it when she is happy.
 
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