"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Need Some Help really quick with women playing w/ hair

DJnoob

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I dont get this... ok here is the problem.

I'd be talking to some women and ALL OF THE SUDDEN they would start playing with their hair as if they wanted me to notice it right there on the spot which I did but wasnt sure what it means..

I know for a fact from stuff i read that when women play with their hair, they are a. flirting b. feel comfortable..

Im not sure.

This ever happend to you guys? and what did you do? and were assumptions were right about that chick liking you?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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milrenkb

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DJnoob said:
I dont get this... ok here is the problem.

I'd be talking to some women and ALL OF THE SUDDEN they would start playing with their hair as if they wanted me to notice it right there on the spot which I did but wasnt sure what it means..

I know for a fact from stuff i read that when women play with their hair, they are a. flirting b. feel comfortable..

Im not sure.

This ever happend to you guys? and what did you do? and were assumptions were right about that chick liking you?

All the time man. Actually I think its better to go on 2 things
1. Is she engaging you?

2. Is she responsive to your kino or better yet is she iniating some kino of her own?

Body language is a very intresting subject but sometimes you can get too caught up it in it.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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How's the rapport between the two of you, is there mutual interest? If so take it as an opening. Notice her enjoyment of playing with herself (er, her hair) and join her. How you go about accomplishing that is up to you. ;)
 

DJnoob

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THey just strangers, err customers..I work in a grocery store
 

Call_Me_Daddy

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DJnoob said:
THey just strangers, err customers..I work in a grocery store
Unless you're eye candy or they're fat... they really don't care. That's probly a habit.

If it happens outside of work... that's different.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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After posting four hundred times, you're still posting a question like this? Think about how useful this board has been to you if that's the case.

DJnoob said:
I dont get this... ok here is the problem.

I'd be talking to some women and ALL OF THE SUDDEN they would start playing with their hair as if they wanted me to notice it right there on the spot which I did but wasnt sure what it means..

I know for a fact from stuff i read that when women play with their hair, they are a. flirting b. feel comfortable..

Im not sure.

This ever happend to you guys? and what did you do? and were assumptions were right about that chick liking you?
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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DJnoob said:
THey just strangers, err customers..I work in a grocery store
Then just sarge them up and get them to meet you somewhere other than the store. You'll be able to use kino then (if you're good).
 

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my daughter plays with her hair when she is sleepy or bored, she does not do it when she is happy.
 
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