"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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a couple days ago me and my friend went on a date with 2 girls, and we were at her house watching movies, me and the girl got pretty close, cuddling and stuff, this was the first time ive ever seen her too. she gave me her number right before i left, i gave her a hug and all, cause i think its weird to kiss a girl on the first date. the next day i call her to invite her over to my place with my friend and his girl, and she was with a girlfriend she hasnt seen in a LONG time, so she said she couldnt hang out that night. now i want to know if i call her again today and ask her to do something, is it gonna make me seem desperate?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by Cna Got 5 On It
a couple days ago me and my friend went on a date with 2 girls, and we were at her house watching movies, me and the girl got pretty close, cuddling and stuff, this was the first time ive ever seen her too.
Isolate and close! ISOLATE! Going on a date with another couple is good, but you want to get her away from her friend so you can work out your game between just you and her without her having to worry about what her friend will think about what she's doing...

she gave me her number right before i left, i gave her a hug and all, cause i think its weird to kiss a girl on the first date.
Are you gay, or are you just 13? If you aren't either, then there's no excuse that you shouldn't go as far as you can with a girl - doesn't matter if it's the first time you've met or the 100th. You go for it and don't worry about if it's "weird" or not.

the next day i call her to invite her over to my place with my friend and his girl, and she was with a girlfriend she hasnt seen in a LONG time, so she said she couldnt hang out that night.
Maybe she didn't want to be around your friend and his girl (since apparently she DJ'd you by giving you her number without you working for it). Instead, she might have wanted it to have just been you and her.

now i want to know if i call her again today and ask her to do something, is it gonna make me seem desperate?
Of course it's going to seem desperate! You hugged her (can we be any more in the "FRIEND ZONE"??), then the next day you called her, then when she blew you off, you wanted to call back the next day?! Slavish adoration is adored in dogs, but with humans its rather despicable. Go live your life and find time to fit her in, don't keep circling your thoughts around her and how nice it might be to hold hands. Before you do that, you might want to read the DJ Bible.
 

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when your dating its hard to keep your cool, this becomes easy when you read the DJ BIBLE, and remember your on a date to find out if she is good enough, not the other way round.. keep that in mind
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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